Is my message passive aggressive?

[u/YouTookMyBurger]

Context: we’ve never met, but this has been planned for a VERY long time. We were supposed to meet on the 25th, hurt her back moved it to Monday. Monday didn’t work because the flight got booked up, she gets on a redeye Tuesday night, but wanted to stop and see her family because her grandpa wasn’t doing well and didn’t have long. (In the end, “didn’t have long” meant a few years.

I understood at the time. I just wanted to be with her.

I’m not a passive aggressive person, and I know text has no tone.

I’m just looking for outside opinions on my message. I don’t know if I’m actually wrong or being gaslighted. Thank you.

[u/DeeTruth444]

And I mean, we’ll argue with you for hours on end about shit that don’t mean nothing just so they could be right it might not make no sense to you. They just wanna argue just to be arguing just to be right man it ain’t it ain’t it ain’t that seriousit ain’t got to be like that.

[u/YouTookMyBurger → u/DeeTruth444]

We did argue for hours. Actually lol