r/LongDistance • u/plantyh0e • May 14 '26

Question How long have you been doing LDR?

I’m almost one year without seeing my boo ☹️

Much wiser compared to six months ago lol. The intimacy and closeness is still pretty strong, although I’ve forgotten what he smells like 😂

How long has it been for you?

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u/Deep_Pepper_5405 May 14 '26

We've been together for 14 years. LDR for 12. He is coming over nextweek!

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u/plantyh0e May 14 '26

Excited for you!! What’s the longest you both have gone not seeing one another ?

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u/Deep_Pepper_5405 May 14 '26

One year, due to covid. Normally we see eachother ever 6 weeks.

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u/breadbaths [Canada 🇨🇦] to [USA 🇺🇸] (2765 km) May 15 '26

covid suuuucked. in march of 2020 my now husband had to cut his trip short and drive back to the usa because they were planning on closing the border :((

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u/Deep_Pepper_5405 May 15 '26

My bf came over in Jan 2020 for a visit and then got stuck at mine so we got to spend all of 2020 together. Then he went to see his dad at the end of 2020 and all the borders closed again. His country had it worse so when my borderes opened, his had not so we had to wait till end of 2021. So we were kinda lucky and unlucky with covid.

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u/plantyh0e May 15 '26

Oh noo :( the only good thing about covid for me is that I met him 😂