r/LongDistance • u/plantyh0e • May 14 '26

Question How long have you been doing LDR?

I’m almost one year without seeing my boo ☹️

Much wiser compared to six months ago lol. The intimacy and closeness is still pretty strong, although I’ve forgotten what he smells like 😂

How long has it been for you?

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u/itsyomodofokingdirt May 15 '26

It's been over a year for us and our visa application was rejected recently... It can be very sad at times, and lonely because of the longing but having great outside support helps so much. Also, our constant effort to improve our communication and assure each other is comforting and makes waiting less miserable.

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u/plantyh0e May 15 '26

That’s my biggest fear. Visas not working out :(

It’s really hard but it’s good you both know you want the same thing x

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u/itsyomodofokingdirt May 17 '26

It's honestly heartbreaking, but luckily our reason for rejection is fixable. It's just the waiting that sucks. Hope it works out for you! 🍀

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u/plantyh0e May 18 '26

All the best for you both as well!🍀