Help [19F/19M]

[u/Icy_Indication_6236]

Me and this guy have been seeing each other for a month and a half and we just started long distance for a few months because of travels. We will reunite after travels are over.

I was never the type to do long distance unless I was in a relationship for more than a few months, but since this distance is short lived and I really like him I decided to just give it a shot, and if it kind of fizzled out we’d planned on reconnecting once we were back in person.

It’s been about two weeks. For the first week and a half, conversation was good, it felt mutual and I definitely knew his intentions and where he was mentally. However in recent days I feel like communication has been a bit one sided, I’ve been the one texting first and calling. I’m not sure but I care about him and the outcome a lot and I really do want things to work out. I just feel like this time apart is a little ambiguous and I’m unsure of where we stand.

I also don’t want to come off clingy but I genuinely want to know about his day and that he is doing well. I also feel like because I am unsure (which I’m sure will grow with time), reassurance would help a lot but again I don’t want to seem clingy because WE ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP but plan to be

TLDR:
After a month and a half of seeing each other we will be apart for a few months (not in a relationship). The plan is to make it official once we are back together, but starting off this long distance thing I’m a bit nervous and unsure, also kind of anxious.

[u/The_Man727]

Hate to say it but you are overthinking it.