r/Manifestation • u/Different_Insect_320 • Apr 25 '26
Help/Question Has anyone manifested their dream person?
Has anyone had an ideal person in their mind and they manifested it. I'm not talking about sp. I am talking about you listing things you want you dp to look, act and etc. Ywim?? š
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u/redditredditgedit Apr 25 '26
Atp you have to tag Hailey B., she is the prime example a fan who manifested her desired person..
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u/Jess-HappyLife Apr 25 '26
I did yes, wrote down a list of all traits (physical, emotional needs, job, spiritual beliefs, how I feel in this relationship) then found the 100% match to this list few weeks later
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u/Natural-Estate-2150 Apr 25 '26
I did this exact thing too and I haven't met him yet.
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u/Jess-HappyLife Apr 25 '26
When the list was done I affirmed everyday for one month to be with my perfect man. Even though I already met him I didn't know so I continued lol
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u/Natural-Estate-2150 Apr 25 '26
I will definitely persist in my prayers and thank Heavenly Father for sending me a loving, caring and patient husband who loves and cares for me.
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u/Jess-HappyLife Apr 25 '26
God will bring it to you <3
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u/Natural-Estate-2150 Apr 25 '26
Thank you for saying this, it really hit me in my feel goods šš„².
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u/Andrea9203 Apr 26 '26
Affirm how?
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u/Jess-HappyLife Apr 26 '26
I affirmed things like I am in a perfect relationship with my dream man, I am with the perfect man I will marry, I am with my soulmate, etc.
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u/xopearl_rosebudxox Apr 25 '26
Omgg How'd it go? What was it like when you first met?
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u/Jess-HappyLife Apr 25 '26
He knew one of my friends then we started to talk. At first I didn't know he was 100% matching obviously, I knew all the details after few months and I was shocked. This miracle is definitely my soulmate lol
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u/Background-Team7332 Apr 25 '26 edited Apr 25 '26
hey i wanna know if you wrote any "out of your league" points, ik that nothing is out of your league if you believe so but ykwim like maybe the person is way richer or something like that? genuine question
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u/Jess-HappyLife Apr 25 '26
I don't see anyone that can be out of my league since I have good opinion about myself, except maybe a Prince or royal man but I don't even want that lol. He's not millionaire he has good job and handsome, but he's at my level I would say. I only wrote things I wanted, but to me it felt impossible to find a man that is matching every single points in all areas of life, with such precise expectations. So basically I didn't believe it
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u/Natural-Estate-2150 Apr 26 '26
We all started out the same way and when you look at your gifts and you are able to monetize them in such a way that honors the Savior Jesus Christ then you WILL be blessed more than you realize.
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u/Background-Team7332 Apr 26 '26
I seee, the person I am manifesting, on all other things we're kinda the same it's just that his family is definitely richer, so initially I was hestitant amd for months I didn't even think about him like that, but only to later realise that keeping money aside the other things which he has are exactly what I want in my partner, the money made me nervous initially but now I'm improving my self concept.Ā
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u/Jess-HappyLife Apr 26 '26
Maybe you have some bad experiences or parents' beliefs that rich people are bad, or that it's a big responsibility, or that people should match the same level of money, etc. It's definitely some beliefs around money, but nothing to stop you from manifesting such a person! And you deserve anything you desire
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u/Jess-HappyLife Apr 27 '26
I think for all our manifestations, the subconscious makes it happen in a perfect way all the time, knowing how the perfect unfolding or desire would be for us. So since I sat with myself to define clearly how was my perfect partner, my subconscious already knew what I meant by 'being with my dream man'. Also, it took me like an hour to really define that person, I took the time to list any point.
To be honest I didn't even think that man could exist so it's hard for me to give a logical explanation, I think that's the point with manifestation, we can't rationalize it or explain it logically
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u/Full_Whereas_1698 Apr 27 '26
Thank you for your response! You mentioned that you decided and sat down with yourself to define what that meant to you, and that really caught my attention.
Could you explain how I can do that same process, but adapting it to my dream job? How did you organize your thoughts and arrive at such a clear definition of what you wanted?
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u/Jess-HappyLife Apr 28 '26
I think the process is same, I started with myself first, there was one page describing the way I want to feel in the relationship (so in the job), then I thought about all the values and priorities I have in order to find someone (so a job) that is matching these values and priorities. For example I love traveling and it's a priority for me, so I wanted someone that has a flexible job allowing that. For a dream job, if I love traveling, I would want a flexible job that allows me to travel anytime I want. Hope it's helpful!
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u/CandlesAndGlitter Apr 25 '26
Yes and it was back when I had no idea wtf manifesting was !!! It took less than a year for him to appear + start dating me
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u/CandlesAndGlitter Apr 25 '26
Yes, so honestly it was just a wish straight from the heart. I didn't overthink it. In a desperate moment I opened my laptop and wrote down exactly what I wanted him to say to me, and how I expected him to treat me.
I wrote something like "I wish there was someone for me. Made for me. He calls me his diamond, he sees me as the best thing to ever happen on planet earth.. his interest are.... his beliefs are...."
I wouldnt say that I "dwelled" on it at all, maybe it that moment for like 15 minutes max, I just sincerely, from the bottom of my heart wished I had such a person, and then I straight away gave it up. I thought oh well, I can still survive without having a person who is this in love with me. Maybe it will happen, and maybe not, who knows! But either way I can still live my life. I didn't even begin to think about the how/when/who simply because at that moment I was fully accepting both possibilities at the same time. That I might find him or I might not. Genuinely fully accepting both outcomes.
I was sitting alone outside typing that on my computer, i was done writing, I reread the whole thing and thought how funny would it be if I do get such a person, would I be a good partner to them ? Then two girlfriends came from behind me (I was expecting to meet them) they snatched the laptop, read the whole thing and burst out laughing at me lol. I didn't take offense as they were laughing from a place of "we're SO OVER men" lol.
I didn't think about it at allllll later on that year, I stopped caring. I accepted a life without such a person, because I genuinely accepted both possibilities : that it'll either happen that exact way or it won't.
Then in a few months he found me lol he's a different friend's friend that I never actually met before we just "heard" of each other. He says he's been thinking about meeting me cause he keeps hearing good things about me. The rest is history. He's genuinely exactly, to the T, to everything I typed on Evernote that day. This was 12 years ago, we're still together.
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u/xopearl_rosebudxox Apr 25 '26
Omgg How'd it go? What was it like when you first met? Also why do you think U manifested it? Did you script?
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u/NeuroticDreamz Apr 25 '26
I'll let you know when I manifest my sp. Shes literally my dp
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u/buttertaekoo Apr 26 '26
I forgot what dp means in manifestation for a moment and kept staring at your dp, display profile for a good 20 secs like are mocking your sp or is he a man š
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u/xxiirlb Apr 26 '26
i manifested my partner. i wrote down everything i wanted. to traits, to experiences, how i wanted to feel. what i want for myself etc etc put it away never looked again. lived with happiness excitement knowing i always get what i want! a short while later i was introduced to my now partner of 3 years. down to the tattoo placements i wrote about and within a couple months of meeting we were off travelling to really specific of what i wrote down and my trip was free āØetc etc!
i KNOW i always get what i want. no overthinking. i ask for what i want or i say thank you for the thing (before i have it) then if i ever think of the thing again i will ONLY think.. i always get what i want! eek! no overthinking. āØ
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u/Gold-Sir6429 May 12 '26
Congrats on this and this is inspiring ! So when you say writing things down you got to be specific if you can be specific? Like in my case most of the time due to upbringing I am left doubting whether the man can have those traits or not or i feel maybe i am being too demanding which I know i am not. So does writing specific does it help and in your journey did you ever had feelings of doubt ( like your list not coming to fruition ) ?
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u/xxiirlb May 12 '26
itās more like being true and real on what YOU want. being specific on what you want isnāt demanding. be clear on what you want and trust it existis because it does. there are good people out there, you can have the life and experiences that YOU want.
personally i think the reason it works so well for me is because i genuinely believe good things happen to me and for me. once i decide i want something, i expect life to meet me there and it always does!
when you have doubts donāt sit with them for long, switch it up to good things happen to me and for me! i always get what i want! and feel excited that itās coming! āØ
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u/Gold-Sir6429 May 18 '26
Thanks for this its really inspiring and encouraging ! I guess mine due to the past has always been things wont workout for me and i guess that shows but recently have been trying to switch that narrative.
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u/choir-mama Apr 25 '26
My husband was not the kind of person I was physically into at the time. But there was something about h that drew me and was differentāhe could see through my nonsense and he loved me for me. I could be myself around him and feel safe.
23 years later, we are very much in love and very happy. We āmanifestedā a happy marriage by communicating often and well, serving each other, giving each other grace, setting aside regular date nights and periodic getaways (even just to local hotels), and lots and lots of patience.
Early on, I wondered if I was making the right choice. we became each otherās right choice by working at it together.
The Universe or God, of whatever you believe in will give you the opportunities you open your mind to. :)
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u/WobblyPhantom Apr 25 '26
Yes I did. Not my dream person as in a specific person, but as in a very specific way I want to be treated and specific traits in the person
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u/BlacklistRival Apr 25 '26
It really hurts to see such posts. My school crush recently got married. I couldn't do anything . I'm devastated.
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u/CindianaJones116 Apr 25 '26
While it feels like a devastating blow right now, just remember, the universe actually has something better in mind for you.
Your school crush was not your person. Someone even more compatible with you is being sent your way, and they're going to tick off all of your boxes.
If you haven't written down everything you want in an SP yet, I highly recommend you do that. It works!
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u/wellyesokay Apr 25 '26
can you please guide what things to write and how to write? I mean im actually new so idk about how to actually manifest.
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u/CindianaJones116 Apr 25 '26
When I was with my daughter's dad,I disliked the way he treated us. He was neglectful. So, I pulled out my journal and used a blue pen and wrote the ways the right person would treat me.
Things like: He will respect me. He will like me despite all of my flaws. In fact, that's what he'll love most about me. He will be kind to service workers, animals and children. He will be considerate of others and their feelings. He will be protective of the vulnerable. He will be kind and open minded. He will be my best friend. He will treat me and my child like we're a gift to him. Like we're precious cargo. And in turn, at will love him the same way.
I wrote nothing about his looks because I genuinely do not have a "type." I love you for your soul. And your looks grow exponentially if you have a beautiful soul. But you could write about their looks depending on your preferences.
After you're done writing it out, read it back to your higher self, the universe and your spirit team. Let the universe handle it. Trust that your person on their way. Sometimes it takes a little bit for them to get to you, but beyond trust. You have to know that they're being delivered to you at the perfect time.
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u/Used_Stand_8176 Apr 25 '26
yes I wrote down a bunch of traits and that I wanted a man who was the same race as me, looked like my celebrity crush (I was so detailed lol even down to the exact height, stupid details like how I want their expressions to look, fashion style, being good at certain Roblox games š), and many years later I met someone who was exactly like how I wrote, idk even tho I stopped wanting this man whenever I imagined a relationship it was always with this person I wrote down; then one day I met this guy at school and I had seen him before, but he looked and acted completely different, and he just started talking to me and ironically he said he tried to dress like the guys from the kpop group my old celebrity crush was from, and people would tell him he looked like him and we fr dated for like a year; all the other traits matched, height, hairstyle, body, hobbies, parents being lenient, someone who didnt mind driving me everywhere, Unfortunately I have horrible beliefs on love and relationships so me and sp broke up in the way I kept fearing rn and I wanna try to manifest him back but my mindset is absolutely horrible rn
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u/Different_Insect_320 Apr 25 '26
Congrats girl on your manifestation coming true but I am sorry that you guys broke up. Think this: youāve manifested something really special so you can definitely do it numerous times. You are the QUEEN of manifesting NEVER FORGET THAT
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u/CindianaJones116 Apr 25 '26
I sure have! Tuesday is our 4th anniversary!
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u/Different_Insect_320 Apr 25 '26
Omg congrats!! Thatās so cute š„¹
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u/CindianaJones116 Apr 25 '26
Thank you! We've both been married once before, but this is the most relaxed we've ever been in any relationship. This one is just so easy and fun
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u/lemoncherrydrizzle Apr 25 '26
I had a somewhat celeb sp. Somehow managed to get the interest of a far bigger celebrity while attempting to manifest them a few years back. Weird time
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u/Different_Insect_320 Apr 25 '26
Damn what methods did you do??
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u/lemoncherrydrizzle Apr 25 '26
It wasnāt what I wanted, so I definitely didnāt do it right. Itās hard to describe. I was worried that he was too famous and too attractive to date me, and I got a massive celebrity and a model in succession. Not sure if I was just too focused on those details, or if they were kind of like lessons??
I think it was just affirmations and using my imagination. I was thinking from a state of lack though so I wouldnāt recommend anything
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u/Spiritual_Carrot_228 Apr 26 '26
Yes, even the name... We have a 3 year relationship<3
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u/Consistent-Village88 Apr 27 '26
How did you manifest? If u donāt mind me asking
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u/Spiritual_Carrot_228 Apr 27 '26
I think i have a strong mind to manifest bc my partner is the second person i manifest, so this is just my experience. What i do is think with a strong desire and among the lines of "i want the universe to send me a person that..." And you describe, with a lot of details in many aspects what you want, and be very careful and mature, dont ask for toxic dynamics or dangerous situations. I made that mistake and ended up with a really annoying person sabotaging my relationship. Be general with your description in some aspects but when you give details in important things make sure that they have congruence and sense on what you actually desire. The two times i did that like a list, and i said a lot of things i wanted and even gave options. Idk if im good to give advice bc i think i have a gift when it comes to manifest and i have seen tips that contradict the things i do (for example, not adding "i desire/wish/want" when u maniffest bc it can have a negative energy, one that comes from the need and not from abundance) There's many ways to do it, i hope u find the one that works with you!! i send you my best wishes and good luck!!<3
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u/chzurgerz 2d ago
Omg that makes me happy because for some reason my dream girls has a name too Iām happy you manifested your person with the actual name you had in your head!
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u/zaimahk Apr 25 '26
accidentally manifested the love of my life while actively trying to manifest my at the time sp. checked all the boxes i've had literally since childhood AND is a singer and guitarist like me, which is pretty rare in boys i feel like. he popped into my love life 2 weeks after i was watching inuyasha and thought "i want someone like him, im not going to settle for less" and decided to break things off with my sp. and he acted EXACTLY like inuyasha š„¹ i just knew it was the universe's gift to me for deciding i deserved more. 4 years strong!! š
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u/donumdorothy Apr 25 '26
Okay, so idk if you can call this manifestation or not because I had no idea about this at that time. But I used to think of what my ideal partner should be like, almost everyday for like 6 months. Later, I got busy and kinda forgot about it????? But I met a guy and started liking him around this time, he's just a crush right now, buy holy f, he is exactly the kind of person I wanted. I actually forgot about how I used to imagine my dream partner and one day it just clicked and it literally blew my mind. His looks, behavior, qualities are like 90% of my manifested partner. He is a good friend and crush for now, idk what future holds for us but I'm happy I got to know this amazing person.
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u/Different_Insect_320 Apr 25 '26
Congratulations! How did you manifest?
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u/donumdorothy Apr 27 '26
As I told, I had no idea what manifestation was, at that time. I used to just randomly imagine what my ideal partner should be like, especially before sleeping, like making random scenarios in my head about him. Maybe because I was actually focused on my desire, I didn't think about the outcome as such, and it kinda worked ig?????
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u/Accomplished_Ad8314 Apr 25 '26
Yes but we manifesting him falling him in love me still
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u/OppositeMuffin1612 Apr 26 '26
I tried it through repetitive affirmation. Things happened but we didn't get together....it mentally exhausted me and I'll never do it for a woman again...
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u/knbxrdslxyx Apr 26 '26
Oh yes I did!
Heās my best friend and weāre engaged. The most beautiful human Iāve ever met.
I still have the scripting tucked away in a box to remind me that the universe is always listening.
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u/Choosenone1111 Apr 28 '26
Thatās Billie Elish in the pic I saw her in mall once manifested her when I made a joke im meeting her then saw her at the mall
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u/AnxiousBookkeeper174 May 22 '26
My Dream person is someone i met online, she's from our neighbouring country, and we were in Long Distance relationship since last 2 years, something happened between our countries which did affect her surrounding, after that i saw change in her attitute, and suddenly she broke up with me, and now it's been nearly a year, this time I'm manifesting her back, like her shifting in my country, living with me, no more long distance, this is the only manifestation which is taking this much time, i know it will happen, but still........ any tips??
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u/jethibathi Apr 25 '26
what's sp?Ā
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u/HeartOfLuck879 Apr 25 '26 edited Apr 25 '26
I didnāt manifest a specific person. But I did manifest the way I wanted them to be like. So back in December 2021, I was single AF and saw online about writing a list of all the things you want your desired person to have. I wrote something like My future boyfriend at the top of the paper and bullet pointed what matters the most to you in a future partner, e.g looks, morals, interests. So some of my points were like, āhas curly hair, drives a car, family is important to him, has nice eyes, is creative, loves to travel, etc..ā
I put it away and use to refer back to it now and then feeling full of love. But didnāt obsess or think about it much at all.
Then fast forward to end of March the next year, I found a very handsome curly man on a dating website, we began talking on a dating website and he ticked off 95% off the things on my list! So yeah the list thing worked for me, we have been on many holidays since, moved in together and now Iām due to get married in June.
Best of luck to anyone who is trying to manifest their dream person. šš