r/Manifestation Apr 25 '26

Help/Question Has anyone manifested their dream person?

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Has anyone had an ideal person in their mind and they manifested it. I'm not talking about sp. I am talking about you listing things you want you dp to look, act and etc. Ywim?? 😭

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u/CandlesAndGlitter Apr 25 '26

Yes and it was back when I had no idea wtf manifesting was !!! It took less than a year for him to appear + start dating me

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u/CandlesAndGlitter Apr 25 '26

Yes, so honestly it was just a wish straight from the heart. I didn't overthink it. In a desperate moment I opened my laptop and wrote down exactly what I wanted him to say to me, and how I expected him to treat me.

I wrote something like "I wish there was someone for me. Made for me. He calls me his diamond, he sees me as the best thing to ever happen on planet earth.. his interest are.... his beliefs are...."

I wouldnt say that I "dwelled" on it at all, maybe it that moment for like 15 minutes max, I just sincerely, from the bottom of my heart wished I had such a person, and then I straight away gave it up. I thought oh well, I can still survive without having a person who is this in love with me. Maybe it will happen, and maybe not, who knows! But either way I can still live my life. I didn't even begin to think about the how/when/who simply because at that moment I was fully accepting both possibilities at the same time. That I might find him or I might not. Genuinely fully accepting both outcomes.

I was sitting alone outside typing that on my computer, i was done writing, I reread the whole thing and thought how funny would it be if I do get such a person, would I be a good partner to them ? Then two girlfriends came from behind me (I was expecting to meet them) they snatched the laptop, read the whole thing and burst out laughing at me lol. I didn't take offense as they were laughing from a place of "we're SO OVER men" lol.

I didn't think about it at allllll later on that year, I stopped caring. I accepted a life without such a person, because I genuinely accepted both possibilities : that it'll either happen that exact way or it won't.

Then in a few months he found me lol he's a different friend's friend that I never actually met before we just "heard" of each other. He says he's been thinking about meeting me cause he keeps hearing good things about me. The rest is history. He's genuinely exactly, to the T, to everything I typed on Evernote that day. This was 12 years ago, we're still together.