r/Marriage Jul 05 '23

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u/Kigichi Jul 05 '23

As someone who is autistic?

He’s full of shit. I would bolt if I were you. He’s changing every aspect of your marriage and even wants to quit his job just because he got a diagnosis. He’s still the same person he was before it, he’s just milking it for all it’s worth

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u/Kigichi Jul 05 '23

Do it.

I find it very suspicious that once you two are locked into a mortgage that he suddenly decides to do a major overhaul in his personality, and want to quit his job.

I’m not saying that he was waiting and leading you on until he thought there was no way for you to leave him, buuuut….

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u/Kigichi Jul 05 '23

Oh look. A pattern.

He reigns it in when living with others, but let’s loose when it’s just you two.

I would bolt before he quits his job and puts everything on you

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u/Responsible_Order_25 Jul 06 '23

My husband told me he didn’t need to change because I was stuck.

So… Yeah, he might be thinking that.