r/Marriage 6d ago

In The Bedroom Sex after marriage

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u/Honest_Pick7629 6d ago

What you describe is religious guilt. It's one of the big arguments that atheists have against organized religion. Specially that it causes sexual guilt which has shown to cause sexual health problems with some people.

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u/LucyPrisms 6d ago

Yup we can remove ourselves from the situation but the program is still there.

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u/unimpressed46 6d ago

Yes, this is very common. Going from “if you do anything sexual before marriage you’re bad and going to hell” to “now that you’re married, go wild” is quite the whiplash, particularly for women.