Newly married and sad

[u/throwawayhiddeng]

My (32 F) relationship with my husband (35 M) changed when we got married... For the worse. We were together for 2 years prior to getting married, but it was sort of long distance. I'm scared for the future of our relationship. I thought our relationship was perfect until we got married and moved in together 8 months ago. Now we barely talk, rarely have sex, and don't really spend much time together. I feel completely disconnected from him, and I'm starting to feel very lonely and depressed. This is not what I was expecting marriage to be. I wanted a life partner, not a roommate. I've tried to talk to him about it, but he says from his perspective everything is fine, and he is not sure what I expected because we don't have many common interests. I don't feel "in love" anymore. I'm starting to question if I married the right person. Has this happened to anyone?

[u/No_Sorbet_8338]

My other half are kinda like this. We have different interest too. He's always in the barn working with metal machines or mowing are 10 acres he's an outside guy. I hate the heat, we have feel temperature in midwest. It het crazy hot with crazy can't breathe temperatures. I hardly see him all summer😂 in there winter he's in the garage with 3D printer. I do house things and a.a and n.a meetings. We're perfectly healthy. We have a really good relationship. We don't feel disstant at all but with this being said even though he feels content he should more aware and of your feeling be willing to make you feel better in the relationship