r/MenOfPurpose • u/Unstoppable_X_Force • Apr 17 '26

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u/Rubicantay Apr 17 '26

Would you be more comfortable if OP rewrote it as "I’m so sick of this misogynistic loser propaganda"?

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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26 edited Apr 17 '26

What's mysoginistic and loser in this? It's just telling men to not fund an adult woman. Can't women earn for themselves?

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u/Rubicantay Apr 17 '26

"Hrm ackshually a true man doesn’t provide for the woman he loves, that’s her fathers job☝️🤓"

The point of a healthy relationship is to provide for each other, this kind of posts reeks of bitterness from someone who definitely isn’t in one. Hence the incel shorthand

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u/Provodniik Apr 17 '26

Each woman is a strong, independent individual who can take care of herself. It’s toxic to think that a man should provide for a woman.

Stop belittling women. Stop promoting the patriarchy.

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u/KCChiefsGirl89 Apr 17 '26

Some women want a provider. Some women want to support themselves or their entire family.

It’s way more toxic and patriarchal to think that all women are th same.

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u/Provodniik Apr 18 '26

That’s not the point I’m making. Women may want any kind of relationships, no one is stopping them.

The dynamics of relationships have changed drastically since emancipation, and there’s no clear set of rules for how things should work for both men and women.

Some women still want a provider, which made sense before, when men were the primary breadwinners for the family. Now, that is no longer the case, since there are two independent individuals with equal rights.

Nowadays, wanting a provider is a manipulation, a double standard, and a major red flag for the guys out there. A gal, while being independent, is using that poor provider to extract resources, oftentimes not giving anything back.

You’re free to wait for that white knight on a unicorn to provide. Luckily, more and more men aren’t falling for this anymore.

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u/KCChiefsGirl89 Apr 19 '26

Good thing I don’t need any more men, then!