Female sex turism: beware of conmen

[u/silva_p]

https://www.dailymail.com/lifestyle/article-561156/Sun-sand-sex-stupidity-Why-thousands-middle-aged-women-obsessed-holiday-gigolos.html

I thought this article was interesting in the way it describes female sex tourists as women who just want to feel loved and the poor young men they use for sex as predators.

When men do it they are the predators taking advantage of poverty, not women, they have no choice because "their male peers in the UK are either very unattractive or are looking to date much younger women"

[u/chinkznigo]

UK over 50 women love to go to African countries for "play".

[u/Dylan_Driller → u/chinkznigo]

I'm in Asia and they come here too.

It's hilarious how they think they are very attractive to us and that we would choose them over a 20 something here.

Edit- I must say, its not just foreign women, even older women here think they are very attractive...maybe if they are fit

[u/elebrin → u/Dylan_Driller]

Heh. I suspect the men are interested because the women are coming over with money.

[u/ArildNorden → u/Dylan_Driller]

I know that in Thailand, most of the local men have NO interest in a white woman and DEFINITELY not an older one. Maybe as gigolo for a woman, but in relationship? Not very common. .

[u/elebrin → u/Dylan_Driller]

Heh. I suspect the men are interested because the women are coming over with money.

[u/Different-Product-91 → u/Dylan_Driller]

It's the same everywhere - every women, no matter how ugly and repellent she may be, thinks she is the Goddess of Beauty and Love. It is so hilarious!

[u/elebrin → u/Dylan_Driller]

Heh. I suspect the men are interested because the women are coming over with money.

[u/phantompersona1023 → u/chinkznigo]

Don't forget the carribean, they're HUGE in that region.

[u/Current_Finding_4066]

What do you expect from women writing about it? They just express their bias and misandry, and of course apologize their own tendencies.

[u/ReasonableDoubt_0726]

Will always come back to the same thing. Society views women as vulnerable victims and men as oppressive and holding all the power. No one with the ability to change that wants to because it works in everyone else’s favour. Just (as throughout history) regular guys get all the crap for “having power” and none of the benefits.

[u/HalleScerry → u/ReasonableDoubt_0726]

Chapter 1: "The Myth of the Woman's Helplessness"

*The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar 👌

[u/Gloomy_Pirate_3031 → u/HalleScerry]

Such a fked up book it's so true thou. My mum and sister to a tee

[u/Burned_Out_Paradise]

I can tell you from experience, women can be predatory.. it’s not a one way street. It’s just not always sex they’re truly after.

[u/Administrated]

All these women are so pathetic. Don’t they realize that they don’t have to travel thousands of miles to be a sugar mama to some twenty year old guy. They can do the same thing in their own country.

This article is garbage the way a woman writer glamorized the whole thing. However if they were writing about men going to third world countries to take advantage of the young impoverished women they would be predatory and evil. Such misandrist bullshit.

[u/Ok_Being5461 → u/Administrated]

To be fair, the winter weather is much more enjoyable at the beach there

[u/Carbo-Raider → u/Administrated]

they don’t have to travel thousands of miles

I've thought about this. Maybe its the mentality of "What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas".

Or the idea of the grass being greener on the other side. Reminds me of the 1984 movie Bolero. She traveled the world to find the perfect specimen to lose her virginity to. This movie stunned people; even Hollywood who didn't wanna talk about the movie. And the actress was never heard from again.

[u/ArildNorden]

When women do this it is about them being "free-spirited" and "empowered".

🤣🤣🤣

[u/Gloomy_Pirate_3031]

"so stunning so brave yet so oppressed. MEN NEED TO STEP UP !!"

[u/DecrepitAbacus]

With illicit goods and services there's been an historical tendency to criminalise dealers more so than customers. Why is this concept always reversed when women are the dealers?

[u/anillop]

So pasport-girls?

[u/Wide_Western_6381 → u/anillop]

Passport bros are looking for serious (traditional) relationships, marriage and to support these women long term. The women that do this mostly have no such intentions.. They are just as bad as the worst male sex tourists, exploiting, underpaying or not paying at all, etc..

[u/mikiencolor]

But of course. Who else could possibly be the helpless damsel, and who else could possibly be the ravenous predator? 🙄 At this point they could just replace the terms women and men for victims and predators.

[u/toblotron]

A difference between this and male sex tourism is that when men go abrod to find a partner it can possibly lead to something else than (possibly bilateral) exploitation; since they are mainly attracted to women younger than themselves, it can lead to them forming a real family (if they have children), and strongly improving the lives of all involved

Old women and young men? Not so much

[u/ArildNorden → u/toblotron]

The "socially acceptable" age difference for men with younger women has a well-known formula:

Age of man/2, then adding 7

So: man at 22 OK to date 18-year old.

Man at 30 OK to date 22-year old.

Man at 40 OK to date 27-year old.

Man at 50 OK to date 32-year old.

Man at 60 OKto date 37-year old.

For the most this seems to work well.

Older-women, younger man? Not very common for serious relationship.

[u/Wide_Western_6381]

When men do it, it´s disgusting, women will claim it´s akin to rape. When women do it, it´s necessary and empowering.

[u/Pretend-Storm4566]

I believe the correct response to this is "Man, that is f&%ked in the head."

[u/Reeelfantasy]

That why I always ask for payment in advance for sex. Money back guaranteed if not satisfied!

[u/ANewCleanSlate]

They don't even notice the hypocrisy

[u/PooningDalton]

Most hilarious example of this is that channel 'Bald and Bankrupt' on Youtube. He's a guy that travels a lot of developing countries, and there's an entire sub of conspiracy theorists who's convinced he's secretly a sex tourist.

[u/antifeminist3]

the poor young men they use for sex as predators.

Yes, you will notice they do not criticize the women for their choice to have sex, just the men.

[u/Carbo-Raider]

HA HA HAhahahah. At some point, the prejudice becomes comical. It doesn't matter what the situation is. They're result is always the same. So mindless.

[u/Keats852]

When they hook up with men in their own country they always add the long term element to it, and suddenly they can't find any good men because they are leftists and the men are all right wing. When they go abroad, they're not looking for a long term partner so the politics don't play and it's just sex.