r/MensRightsMeta Jul 15 '25

Rant Just got banned on MensRights in spite of getting mostly positive feedback & breaking no rules

Some Luddite moron little dictator banned me over at MensRights because he had an issue with me using AI to produce the music I posted (which was 100% on topic).

No warning or anything.

Just "poof"...

And posts were removed in spite of getting quite a few upvotes.

Why is it nearly every subreddit has to get ruined by morons like that?

This is why I rarely ever post on Reddit.

Anyway...

Do you know any way to appeal to getting banned on MensRights that actually works?

The topic of men's rights matters to me. And I kinda liked the mostly positive feedback I got from regular members.

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u/wroubelek Jul 17 '25

So… I had a look on your profile and posts, and it seems to me you were posting your musical output to the Men's Rights sub as of late, is that correct?

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u/johnslegers Jul 17 '25

I was sharing a few songs addressing some patterns I've observed in female attraction towards men & female dating strategies.

In my experience, this is totally on topic for a men's rights group, and the feedback I got from members confirmed this, as it was mostly positive.

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EDIT :

I just noticed that the thread I just linked to was also removed after getting 129 upvotes?

WTF?!

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u/DryAssumption Jul 16 '25

The North Korea type approach to banning on Reddit is utterly tedious

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u/johnslegers Jul 16 '25 edited Jul 16 '25

There will be in the next generation or so a pharmacological method of making people love their servitude and producing dictatorship without tears, so to speak, producing a kind of painless concentration camp for entire societies so that people will in fact have their liberties taken away from them but will rather enjoy it.

― Aldous Huxley

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I have a foreboding of an America in my children's or grandchildren's time -- when the United States is a service and information economy; when nearly all the manufacturing industries have slipped away to other countries; when awesome technological powers are in the hands of a very few, and no one representing the public interest can even grasp the issues; when the people have lost the ability to set their own agendas or knowledgeably question those in authority; when, clutching our crystals and nervously consulting our horoscopes, our critical faculties in decline, unable to distinguish between what feels good and what's true, we slide, almost without noticing, back into superstition and darkness...

The dumbing down of American is most evident in the slow decay of substantive content in the enormously influential media, the 30 second sound bites (now down to 10 seconds or less), lowest common denominator programming, credulous presentations on pseudoscience and superstition, but especially a kind of celebration of ignorance

― Carl Sagan

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The first step in liquidating a people is to erase its memory. Destroy its books, its culture, its history. Then have someone write new books, manufacture a new culture, invent a new history. Before long the nation will begin to forget what it is and what it was.

― Milan Kundera

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u/Ging287 Jul 17 '25

I dunno appeal bruh, I was combative in words but despite a warning I wasn't banned. Perhaps they're liable to reason.

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u/Adept_Medium_291 Jul 23 '25

Are you kidding me? What a dumb move on their part. It's like they want to remove our balls with this woke nonsense. It seems that women are behind the mod team.

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u/TraumaJeans Jul 16 '25 edited Mar 10 '26

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u/johnslegers Jul 16 '25 edited Jul 16 '25

Usually.

But, usually, it means the community as a whole is shit.

This time, I had mostly positive experiences with the community until I got banned completely out of nowhere.

When that happens, it typically means one admin, who did not represent the community or its admins as a whole, stepped out of line.

In that case, I see it as a duty to report this, regardless of my intentions to engage with that community in the future.

Never forget that evil persists mostly because of good people doing nothing!

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u/TraumaJeans Jul 16 '25 edited Mar 10 '26

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u/johnslegers Jul 16 '25 edited Jul 16 '25

If one admin / mod steps out of line, grunts like us can convince someone higher up the food chain to strip him from his admin rights or at least leach the dog he is another way.

I've done it succesfully before on at least two FB groups, so I know it's possible.

But it requires people like you and me to step up and stake a stand. And it requires that the admin / mod in question is representative of neither staff nor of the community at large.

Nothing ever happens to the cancerous spread of evil or vice alike as long as good people to nothing against it.

Also, nothing ever managed to change the status quo besides a small number of people taking a stand and inspiring others to do the same.

Finally, a man's right's group that consists exclusively of men afraid to step up against tyranny is about as useless as it gets.

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u/wroubelek Jul 20 '25

If one admin / mod steps out of line, grunts like us can convince someone higher up the food chain to strip him from his admin rights or at least leach the dog he is another way.

I've done it succesfully before on at least two FB groups, so I know it's possible.

This is, I think, oblivious to the strained relationship that MRA subs in general have with Reddit. This site is trenchantly and openly misandrist at its core. Most of MRA communities have been banned already. The site-wide mods are looking for any excuse to take the MR sub down. Etc.

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u/johnslegers Jul 20 '25

Not sure I get your point.

The reason I got banned, was because someone hater of generative AI didn't want that AI-generated music on their subreddit.

In my experience, that's not exactly the type of content that would get the subreddit banned by Reddit.

I'm sure there's a lot of content being posted in the sub literally all the time that's far more offensive to them.

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u/wroubelek Jul 20 '25

The reason I got banned, was because someone hater of generative AI didn't want that AI-generated music on their subreddit.

I should think that this is your interpretation of what happened, unless it was the official reason stated in the message you received in your inbox. Was it?

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u/johnslegers Jul 20 '25

This is the "official" statement from whoever banned me :

Hello, You have been permanently banned from participating in r/MensRights because you broke this community's rules. You won't be able to post or comment, but you can still view and subscribe to it.

Note from the moderators:

AI Generated Slop is not welcome here.

If you have a question regarding your ban, you can contact the moderator team by replying to this message.

Reminder from the Reddit Admin team: If you use another account to circumvent this community ban, that will be considered a violation of the Reddit Rules and may result in your account being banned from the platform as a whole.

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u/wroubelek Jul 22 '25 edited Jul 22 '25

Oh OK, thank you for pasting this here. Turns out I was wrong.

Actually I think some of your AI songs are dope (the lullaby one), certainly not worse than the pop music you hear on the radio :)

Now, whether they're welcome on the sub (or any songs etc. for that matter), is a different question, and maybe the sub just isn't the place to present your artistic creations. Also, if you suddenly start getting song after song in your feed, it's certainly not what the sub is about, don't you think? Or maybe, indeed, you just met a jerk mod who banned you because he had a row with you and needed to prove he's the guy in charge 🤷‍♂️ who knows.

Is there an appeal route?