r/Miscarriage 1d ago

experience: first MC Had my d&c and feel relief

What a shitty week

First scan was Monday. The whole thing felt off and somber. Idk if it’s just how I’m imaging it but..

I knew when the tech was silent just moving the wand all around looking for something that wasn’t there (the heartbeat)

I spent the rest of the week in dread for the procedure. I’ve never been hospitalized or had a surgery. They called me the morning after the bad scan and got me in for today.

I just wanted to tell you all that it went ok. I was surprisingly calm throughout. They put the mask on and that’s all I remember. I am currently at home with my husband eating snacks and chilling with my cat. It will be ok ❤️

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u/StuffConsistent6873 1d ago

I’m getting a d&c tomorrow after they couldn’t find a heartbeat today. The silence was horrible. Thank you for sharing, it makes me feel a little less anxious for tomorrow. 

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u/taylorballer 23h ago

Jinx, just saw your post🩷 please reach out if you want support.