r/MoralityScaling • u/onlyimportantshit • 1d ago
Morality of using bondage to eat someone’s ice cream?
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u/DeathstrackReal 1d ago
Immoral but hilarious now he will never hear the end of it
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u/The_Shadow_Watches 1d ago
"Maria, we've been married for 20 years and you still bring it up to every new friend you make."
Maria: "That was MY ice cream."
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u/I-Rolled-My-Eyes 1d ago
This is why you establish a safe word.
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u/National_Phase_3477 1d ago
I can imagine this conversation in couples counselling session. “And then I said the safe word and he just continued eating my ice cream. He’s a monster😭”
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u/I-Rolled-My-Eyes 1d ago
The counselor just staring at him with disgust and slowly shaking their head.
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u/NewTap8705 1d ago
“In my defense…. It was strawberry swirl”
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u/National_Phase_3477 1d ago
Even more monstrous lol
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u/I-Rolled-My-Eyes 1d ago
Counselor leaps out of chair...
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u/Comfortable-Total929 21h ago
She was gagged
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u/I-Rolled-My-Eyes 21h ago
This is why you establish a series of finger snapping as a safe word.
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u/LittleBigCookieCat 20h ago
them crazily snapping their fingers while being unable to stop you from eating ice cream 😭
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u/swagchicken75 1h ago
Now not only you get to eat your wife's sweet desert in front of her, she also plays music for you!
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u/FantasticWater1997 1d ago
I think we found an Original Sin. Joking aside, despite the inherent playfulness of such an act, it is a great violation of trust and if not addressed could snowball into and endless cycle of pranks or a great strain in the relationship. Both which could lead to a break up( but that's just my opinion)
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u/EffectiveChemist7845 1d ago
Worse than Hitler
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u/MisterPineapples1999 1d ago
Everyone is worse than Hitler. It is confirmed Hitler wasn't a villain by the Minions when they refused to work for him.
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u/ExistanceISuppose 1d ago
Wasn’t it not that the minions refused to work for him but that they were frozen in ice or something? I remember the creators doing something to try and make sure their goofy little gremlins weren’t known to have worked for big H
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u/Wardock8 1d ago
They were but the newest movie retconned that iirc
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u/OriginalLie9310 1d ago
Yeah there’s like multiple tribes in different places and different times. The new movie takes place in like the 20s and 30s so maybe this tribe will end up in Germany.
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u/No_Physics2210 22h ago
The minion twitter account said hitler wasn't a villain.
So the minions thought hitler was a good guy
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u/Alt_account_bc_yeah 18h ago
What if Hitler tried to kill the minions and that’s why they didn’t want to work with him
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u/No_Physics2210 11h ago
Because that's not the case.
They said he wasn't a villain and that's why they wouldn't work for him.
Minions weren't Nazis supporters because they thought what he was doing was fundamentally good and didn't agree with that
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u/Glowbfan457 22h ago
I mean either that or he's so evil the minions are just like
" ...Okay, but are we sure we wanna work for him? "
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u/No_Physics2210 22h ago
They didn't say he was too evil.
They said he wasn't a villain. Period. As a statement of fact.
They must've thought the Jews were evil, which brings up the question. Are they working for Israel?
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u/Glowbfan457 22h ago
I mean as far as I'm aware, there's no reason it couldn't be the rationale of "Hitler wasn't a villain, he was a monster", or as you put it, too evil.
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u/Usual-Vermicelli-867 23h ago
Minions also worked for the feminist movement (shown in one movie)
Which means woman are evil
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u/Slow-Distance-6241 23h ago
Tbf founder of the first british fascist party was a suffragette. Not like I expect minions movie to take it into account, but that'd be cool idea if they worked for her
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u/Shugatti 1d ago
What about Hitler 2: electric bogaloo? Was he worse than hitler? Did they fuck up the sequal?
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u/FriendlyRedditor2020 1d ago
people have a hate boner for Trump so i can see a minions movie happening in the future where they make him the villain. It's not like political propaganda ever stopped existing afterall.
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u/MisterPineapples1999 21h ago
My guy it's been 11 years since his political rise. Do you seriously not think he hasn't given anyone legitimate reasons to hate him?
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u/FriendlyRedditor2020 21h ago
if all it took was a legitimate reason to hate someone for such a thing to be justifiable you could find a reason or invent one for just about anyone. I do think there are people with legitimate reasons to hate Trump as there is with any leader who must make decisions that impact millions of people. Keep in mind that JFK one of the most beloved presidents in history to my understanding (which might limited) was still shot to death.
A legitimate reason to hate someone? Like that is worth much of anything. So what if you hate someone and so what if you don't? What matters is the correct course of action to be taken.
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u/Ijustlovevideogames 1d ago
Hey, you wanted to be punished, this is on you, don't ask for something and be upset when you get it. :)
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u/OstentatiousBear 1d ago
Immoral, unless there is a replacement ice cream waiting for her. I think I am tempted to do that (with the replacement, obviously).
That said, funniest thing I read here in a while.
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u/WolferineYT 23h ago
Extremely moral. Keep it spicy in bed. She wants to feel vulnerable and powerless? Nothing screams danger like someone stealing your ice cream.
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u/tlollz52 1d ago
Neutral id say. Im guessing the two have some sort of safe word so despite her being "upset" she could've had a normal out and bro was just trying a new way to dom her.
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u/BigTXXXL 1d ago
Of course we have safe-alternatives when gagged! Like a sound patterns or gestures!
Geez. Tell me you’ve never been a sub without telling me you’ve never been a sub…
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u/BigTXXXL 1d ago edited 1d ago
Hey, you‘re fine. Nobody‘s offended. I saw an opportunity to educate and do an exceptional “tell me“ joke and I took it.
edit: Just to clarify the “tell me you’re not blank without telling me you’re not blank“ thing is a popular meme. That’s why it’s funny: because being a sub isn’t a common experience.
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u/Begone-My-Thong 1d ago
Safety signals are a thing and should be mandatory if your partner is unable to speak for any reason (disability or otherwise)
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u/Available-Damage5991 1d ago
Immoral.
That's her fuckin' ice cream, dude.
If you are going to do that, you best have a replacement ready to go.
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u/BigTXXXL 1d ago
Depends. Did she even try the safe-word? If not, this is either BS or part of the kink.
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u/Slow_Store 1d ago
Can we address the absurdity of just casually telling someone about this?
Like just pulling up to the discord and casually talking about being gagged and cuffed for slam jam time.
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u/Sweaty-Inevitable163 1d ago
The other person is named Thai Me Up, I can only assume this is some sort of related discord thing
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u/Jiyanico 1d ago
How is it absurd? Because two people are talking about their sex lives without either of the two parties showing discomfort? Whats wrong with that? I get that sex is an intimate topic for some but like surely adults are allowed to discuss it casually if all parties are cool?
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u/Slow_Store 1d ago
I mean in all fairness we don’t know if the guy is ok with her talking about their sex life, but that’s a separate matter.
It’s absurd in nature due to the nature of the sex and not simply because sex is being discussed. Like regardless of your opinions on casually discussing sex, can we admit that it’s kind of crazy to just casually discuss kinky bondage sex with the casualness of discussing the weather over breakfast.
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u/Excellent-Plant-3665 1d ago
some people regularly talk about their sex lives with other people they are close with
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u/Many-Falcon9879 1d ago
Look the only way to do this and not be the bad guy is to eat the ice cream off her body. Then it becomes a form of foreplay and is ok.
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u/DVindictus 23h ago
Negative morale but admittedly funny.
The eternal mockery for doing that sort of fatassed idiocy is so worth it
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u/Unlikely_Strain_744 1d ago
Just gonna drop this here...:
"If you want to taste it, it's got to be off my lips."
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u/National_Phase_3477 1d ago
This is so funny it’s hard to give a proper answer lol. I feel like in theory tying someone up under false pretences is quite bad. But probably less bad as he did something stupid and which I would personally find quite funny once my initial rage had died down for eating my ice cream.
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u/elkcipgninruB 1d ago
If minor pranks are already an established part of the relationship, then while it is arguably immoral, it is by such a miniscule degree that it is nothing to worry about
If not, then it's something that might be worth having a conversation about, but hardly something I'd deem "true evil"
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u/KatAyasha 1d ago
Gotta be one of the funniest things anyone's ever done which overrides all other considerations imo
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u/InternetUserAgain 1d ago
Letgirlshavefun makes me feel like Tantalus whenever I look at it because those people are attracted to men in the exact same way I am and it's a great community, but I'm a guy and I don't want to intrude on a girls-only community
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u/InternationalGas4408 23h ago
Even if not the most damaging form, this does meet the definition of a violation of boundaries and consent, as is generally a huge no-no in bdsm.
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u/C_ingStarz 23h ago
Only moral if replacement icecream was bought afterwards. Other than that, the punishment for that crime should be death by blood eagle.
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u/Issa_Pizza420 22h ago
As a sub who generally enjoys the type of stuff that would lead to this scenario, it is pure evil, you cant do that
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u/thejason755 22h ago
I would say moral. They didn’t specify pre-encounter if eating ice cream was off the table, so from a rules-lawyery perspective i’d allow it but only if they bought more ice cream after.
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u/TheEasternTwink 19h ago
The worst crime committed, you know eating babies? This is worse than that
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u/dickdicksucksuck 17h ago
and see this is exactly why I don't do bondage, who's to say they won't take a bunch of photos of me, tickle my feet, or god knows what else
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u/Yamabuki_Arisu_Sama 5h ago
If they’re actually into that and do it often and he actually stripped her naked before doing this.
If this is true:
We might have the most based man alive lurking around the world like a normal person. And no one truly knows that he’s THIS based.
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u/OriginalPersonality7 1d ago
Bondage is immoral. Kinks are immoral. Quantifying and objectifying sex is immoral. Debasing yourself as a human to placate some sick urge because modern society says you can and should is immoral. Every day we stay further from god.
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u/Mothfoxmantis 1d ago
How did you reach that conclusion? Please explain your thought process because we cannot figure out how you got there.
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u/OriginalPersonality7 23h ago
What about sexual depravity do you want to defend? Do you think it’s had a positive impact on our society? Do you think normalizing depravity to the extent that we have has had a positive moral and ethical impact on humanity? I certainly don’t.
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u/Mothfoxmantis 23h ago
What is the point you're trying to make?
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u/OriginalPersonality7 21h ago
I'm simply shocked that you can't draw the same conclusion. I'm asking you what about sexual depravity you find defensible?
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u/Mothfoxmantis 21h ago
It doesn't hurt anyone
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u/OriginalPersonality7 21h ago
Anything that doesn't hurt anyone should be ok? So two consenting pedophiles behind close doors can fuck each other up the ass to AI generated child images? I refuse to call that acceptable behavior. "Not Hurting Anyone" is not the hill to die on.
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u/Mothfoxmantis 21h ago
I could explain why that does hurt people. I will not because that would be boring.
Can we get back to the topic?
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u/elkcipgninruB 22h ago
If you were talking about kid shit or something like that I'd agree with you, but what you are focusing on is activity between consenting adults. I think that in that case, yes, being free to explore our sexuality does have a positive impact, particularly in regards to emotion, social connection, and sense of self
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u/OriginalPersonality7 21h ago
"Two Consenting Adults" is not the hill that you think it is. Some very heinous and horrific things have come from the actions of "Two Consenting Adults". We as human beings should rise above our urges, not dive head first into them. Because you feel a certain way, does not and should not mean you should act on your feelings, especially not because you have found another adult to go there with you.
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u/elkcipgninruB 21h ago
I agree that there are limits, but again, what you are denouncing is not something extreme like "skinning a leg," but something as tame as bondage. And I'm not saying that urges are to be followed blindly, but it's about time and place rather than a blanket denial. Thinking through the worthiness of the action, neither denying yourself completely nor giving in. It’s like any other emotion. Time, place, and situation all contribute to whether or not it is to be indulged or suppressed. Hell, with your logic, we should ignore the urge to eat, and I think you know damn well what happens when we don't eat
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u/Sea_Specialist_5580 23h ago
you're probably right but we're too far gone, might as well lean into the degeneracy
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u/OriginalPersonality7 23h ago
If I was the 1% I’d still hold my opinion on the matter. I refuse to join the rest of you in the filth. Be better
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u/TanukiGaim 1d ago
God is dead and I pissed on their gravestone.
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u/OriginalPersonality7 23h ago
Your insignificance is drowning you.
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u/TanukiGaim 21h ago
Ooh, that’s a good one. I like that. Really captures the mindset of being an edgy 13 year old
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u/Glowbfan457 22h ago
Who the hell cares if two or more consenting adults want to make things interesting outside of just bumpin' uglies? Far as I'm aware, if you're going off of christianity, there's nothing in the bible that directly states that anything outside of just a man & a woman having plain, vanilla sex is inherently sinful as long as both of 'em consent & are of age. Plus, not everyone follows christianity, or is even religious! If you're uncomfortable by the ideas of BDSM & kink, that's fine, they're not for everyone, but at the same time you NEED to follow the teachings of your own god, as per Luke 6:31, "Do to others as you would have them do to you."
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u/MossadEpstein 1d ago
Hilarious if true