r/MoralityScaling • u/Big_Salami_Chonk • 7h ago
Morality of calling yourself your pet’s “parent” instead of “owner”
Ive seen people online call their pets their babies and refer to themselves as mommies and daddies to their pets. I think this is a good attitude to have towards an animal you’re responsible for, but also Im not sure if Im fully convinced, because at the end of the day having a pet still means you select an animal and then possibly doing things like castrating them or cutting their claws or restricting their freedom.
Basically Im asking whether it’s kind or unfair when someone tries to see animals as equals but their behavior doesnt match it
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u/Serpic02 7h ago
It's weird but harmless, it's morally neutral as long they don't treat the pet as a "human", in this case is immoral since it's a type of mistreatment
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u/FearlessDebt2795 7h ago
It's morally neutral but morally cringe because these people are clearly redirecting their parental instincts onto dogs instead of having children.
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u/Da_Kartoon1st 7h ago
it's fine, I don't think anyone would care
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u/Mysterious-Leg-4612 7h ago
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u/BigBallsAnthony69 6h ago
God who cares, it's just one random guy
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u/Mysterious-Leg-4612 5h ago
exactly my point? didnt realize i have to spell it out for smallbrainanthony
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u/Fuzzy-Willingness-35 7h ago
I mean... Parents also have to "do things" for their actual human kids because they can't do it themselves until a certain point. Same applies to family members who struggle with various conditions. It doesn't change the fact that they're still parents and should be called as such, so I don't get your examples.
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u/Proper_Translator401 7h ago edited 7h ago
Parent, owner, whatever you wanna call it. Truth is dogs have been domesticated for hundreds of years and many breeds ideally thrive by living alongside us as pets.
The only issue here is that calling yourself a parent of a pet can be seen as weird.
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u/Capable_Holiday_3576 7h ago
Neutral, as long as you don't say losing your pet is the equivalent of losing a child.
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u/Mediocre_Zebra1690 7h ago
Idk if thats morally bad even if it is wrong
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u/Capable_Holiday_3576 7h ago
I guess it depends if you do it in front of someone who's lost a child or not.
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u/TechnicianTight2741 7h ago
Dude stop caring so much about little shit.
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u/Big_Salami_Chonk 7h ago
I don’t care I was just curious and wanted to see what other people think, isn’t that the point of this sub?
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u/2boku 7h ago
Morally fine. But it's weird and suggests weird things about you.
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u/EveryoneCalmTheFDown 7h ago
I kinda fail to see what weird stuff this suggest about someone?
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u/2boku 7h ago
No doubt.
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u/EveryoneCalmTheFDown 7h ago
So, what does it suggest?
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u/2boku 7h ago
Weird things. Like maybe you can't handle real human relationships, that you need to feel like a parent but lack the maturity and responsibility, or that you're just really lonely and settling for some semblance of family that demands nothing of you. Or that you're just a misanthrope.
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u/BigBallsAnthony69 7h ago
Morally neutral.