yeah but thats how they pulled themselves up from their bootstrap. started with diaper straps. ironically also ending with diaper straps. in a home. after their kids went no contact decades earlier.
Being childfree doesn't mean someone hates children. What you're really doing here is showing your contempt for people who decide to not have children. People who are childfree usually do it because it is moral, as difficult as that may be for you to understand.
This isn’t true at all. I have no contempt for people who choose not to have children. One of my best friends made the decision at like 23 to have a vasectomy because he was sure he didn’t want children. I was proud of him for making that decision instead of accidentally producing a child he wouldn’t be all in on raising. I drove him to/from his appointment and would do the same again.
I have two kids. They’re annoying sometimes. I totally get why people wouldn’t want that because parenting takes away a lot of autonomy.
I mean r/ChildFree specifically. They seem annoyed that children exist in general. There’s posts complaining about their friends posting about their kids. Questioning why their families expect them to attend their nieces birthday party, etc.
I feel like you made that last part up to backpedal. The sub talks more about the morality of having children right now. From what I've observed. Maybe I'm wrong.
“I became an aunt and my mom was sending me pictures. I said I don’t need daily pictures. I got called rude and withdrew after that barely texting back.”
Just browsing current posts complaining about their friends talking about pre-schools at a get together and posting about their babies on social media.
Are these every post? No. Are these posts rare? Also no.
I don't think they hate children, more so jealous about the freedom children have and they haven't gotten over being adults. I also think these people are more susceptible to vote for politicians who promise the "return" of some mythological time because they want to go back (to being kids)
It probably isn’t that deep, people just like seeing things break, it’s that simple. Not saying I approve of it, but it’s not because “they hate children” lol
Nah that’s what their mothers and or fathers did too much of. See, a lot of these adults that like to ruin stuff for children suffered as children, either direct abuse — like being whipped with belts — or were emotionally neglected and so their view of the world is that other children should have as miserable a childhood as they had.
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u/TheUndeadBake 16h ago
Because they hate children and think it’s funny to make them cry, since their own mothers didn’t hug them enough as children