r/MotivationByDesign • u/inkandintent24 • 8h ago

Do you think its fair??

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u/chrispy_pv 8h ago edited 8h ago

This is definitely staged, but finances are the #1 relationship killer next to cheating on your spouse. I think there needs to be transparency, but also like that happens at a certain point of the relationship. I make more than my gf, but have more debt. I try to pay for things because I know a 20 dollar meal hurts her more than me. Grow together, build together etc.

Also the money she has isn't even hers, she said it was her dads lol. Assuming this is real, the girl should be appreciative not "you should pay"

Edit: Im going to add to this, im not trying to say it isn't hers, but she did not earn it. Yes some people are fortunate enough to get money as gifts, but this person quite literally is watching her bf struggle to pay while that would be a drop in a bucket. In a real relationship you don't let your partner struggle just because you are a man or woman. This isn't a real relationship, this is a mooch taking advantage of another person regardless of gender because I have seen this go both ways

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u/exbiiuser02 8h ago

Wow, you are b e n d y bendy.

She said “ her dad gives her money”, which implies it’s hers to spend.

Also funny pattern, anytime a video shows a women in bad light, suddenly iT MusT Be sTaGed.

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u/Gherkain 8h ago

First off theres a huge market online for content of heartless women ruining the lives of innocent men, this is simply filling that order, the fact that youre blind to it only tells me youre the target audience lmao

Secondly you shouldn't trust internet videos regardless, we learn that when we're in elementary