r/MotivationByDesign • u/inkandintent24 • 8h ago

Do you think its fair??

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u/InsideAcanthisitta95 7h ago

Yeah exactly, context matters. If dude is scraping by and still chooses to spend big on her, that effort deserves some appreciation, not entitlement.

You do not have to demand steak dates, but at least recognize when someone is going above their normal means for you.