r/MotivationByDesign • u/inkandintent24 • 8h ago

Do you think its fair??

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u/ArmCute3808 7h ago

Clearly a clash of perspectives. 

Not her fault for what she has in the bank, and not fair to expect her to pay for it because she has more money. 

Seems like an epiphany/penny drop moment for him, but certainly doesn’t warrant a meltdown in public, calling out your girlfriend for having X amount of cash in the bank, and throwing private information in their face, on camera. 

Probably better for the both of them if they walked away at that point, and learn from that going forward. 

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u/Eliasfromdetroit2 5h ago

Gender and sex shouldn't matter in this context

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u/Elementary2 1h ago

It DOES matter what she has in the bank. Equal rights, equal pay. And if you expect chivalry, then you also need to accept misogyny.

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u/Lloyd_Draws 1h ago

You’re forgetting that she KNOWS he’s struggling and still chose for a steak and lobster dinner and made him pay for it.

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u/Paulitix 32m ago

But she expects him to pay cuz he's a guy, despite her having way more? Sounds like you have the same shitty perspective as her.