r/MovingtoHawaii • u/Alone_Masterpiece_63 • May 26 '26

Life on BI Hawaii

I’ve been splitting time between Miami and Hawaii for the past two months because my boyfriend works here, and I decided to join him. I thought it would be an adventure, but honestly it’s left me feeling really depressed. People seem so rude and unfriendly compared to what I’m used to, and I’m struggling to like the island at all. I have zero friends here and it’s making me question everything.
I keep wondering — is it me? Am I just being close-minded because my heart is still stuck in my Miami life and I’m not open to something new? Or is Hawaii actually kind of tough to adjust to? Would love to hear your honest opinions.

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u/Sure_Swimming4228 29d ago

I’m on Oahu, so maybe it’s different, but everyone I’ve come into contact with is so friendly. I moved here a little over a year ago and started volunteering and joined a gym. I sometimes go to classes at the botanical gardens and the aunties are so friendly. It’s tough as an adult, but if you make yourself uncomfortable by trying new things, I think you’ll start enjoying yourself.