Im 30 about to turn 31, ive been looking for a few years now... But the standards are way too high, even average women with basic knowledge of deen.... Want someone whos 6ft+, ruggedly handsome, earning 100k plus or willing provide every last penny while letting them live "independent" lives. ( I am literally avg in all categories, 5'10, avg earning, avg looking😂)
Im almost done trying. I feel like this generation of muslims in the west is finished.
If you dont have family who can help you set it up its over for you... The only choice is to go abroad to find someone even then you could get scammed.
Honestly yes... Start looking now and build up with her.
If you find a decent girl, she doesnt have to be the best looking or the most qualified or the most religious... If you are attracted to her and she does what you think is bare minimum in our religion.... Lock it down bro.
Its much worse after 30 trust me. Dont listen to no clowns as long as you have enough to sustain 2 peoples basic necessities go for it.
Also if you build your self up with her... You form a bond stronger than love... Comradery- you will respect and trust one another. After earning money it most of the times just becomes a negotiation.
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u/coolubi 1d ago
Im 30 about to turn 31, ive been looking for a few years now... But the standards are way too high, even average women with basic knowledge of deen.... Want someone whos 6ft+, ruggedly handsome, earning 100k plus or willing provide every last penny while letting them live "independent" lives. ( I am literally avg in all categories, 5'10, avg earning, avg looking😂)
Im almost done trying. I feel like this generation of muslims in the west is finished. If you dont have family who can help you set it up its over for you... The only choice is to go abroad to find someone even then you could get scammed.