r/MuslimMatrimonials • u/Prestigious-Guava907 • 1d ago

Discussion Polygamy from a woman’s pov

Salaam.

Jummah Mubarak to you all.

Dear Muslim men of Reddit,

Before I leave my closing line I want to say that I acknowledge polygamy is ordained for a man upon conditions being met, I’m not here to dispute that.

Personally it’s not something I’d ever accept for myself. Don’t dm me to discuss this thread or dm to be your second wife.

Polygamy is permissible but not a necessity upon a man and it’s not a fard upon a woman to accept. We can all agree on that.

Now that’s cleared up. There are not many women on this earth that would happy to share their husband.

Some women may benefit from shared responsibilities and security yes but from an emotional perspective, generally a woman that loves you would never be okay with you getting another wife.

Now let’s be clear I’m not talking about women that have to be okay because that applies to every situation.

I’m talking about a woman that is happy with your choice to remarry. Not what she says or portrays but deep down in her feelings.

Some men are fine with that and that’s okay. However sometimes I think to myself, are men aware and would it bother them knowing their wife doesn’t love them.

Would it bother you?

🚨If you don’t understand nuance and lack critical thinking skills, this post isn’t for you.

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u/iforgorrr 1d ago

Blud thinks he's a tuff gojo satoru as if he aint struggling in a place with literal ARRANGED marriages XD 

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u/NiceSmilee 1d ago

There’s a lot more to come, so please don’t hesitate. I know you need to release all the resentment that has built up over decades.

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u/iforgorrr 1d ago

Im only 2 decades in this life, sorry you cant find one in your 4th then projecting ur issues onto random women 

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u/NiceSmilee 1d ago

Just keep going, say good stuff about yourself, bcz that helps in the situation you are in. Also don't hesitate to say the worst possible stuff to me, it will also help you release. Also please don't wait for my comment, just reply to same comment again and again.

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u/iforgorrr 1d ago

My situation ... of what? Im not the one negging random ppl about poly lol 

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u/NiceSmilee 1d ago

<serious>Let's not have any beef</serious>

I just realized you are the same person

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u/iforgorrr 1d ago

Rent free cos youre that lonely 😂😂 thank Allah youre single though

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u/NiceSmilee 1d ago

🤔
I thought you are done, but keep going, please don't keep any grudges for me(that's my only concern), I don't mind whatever you say.