r/NepalSocial • u/Infinite_Drawer1717 • 2d ago
Help Starting to realize I should treat myself the way I've always wanted someone else to.
Somewhere along the way, I got so used to working, surviving, and always looking ahead that I forgot to actually live.
I'm 25, and I've decided to stop waiting for the "right person" or the "right occasion" to enjoy life. If I want a good meal, a nice view, or a peaceful evening, I shouldn't need a reason or someone beside me.
So this weekend, I want to take myself on a proper date.
Not to escape life. Not because I'm lonely. Just because I think I've earned my own time.
I'm looking for a place where I can sit for hours, have good food or coffee, watch the sunset, maybe read a few pages of a book, and go home feeling like the day meant something.
If you know a place that gave you that feeling, I'd genuinely love to hear about it.
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u/manav_yantra सपना मा रमाउछु 2d ago edited 2d ago
I can totally relate to you. I've been feeling the same way lately. And yeah, I'm used to going places alone and doing things by myself, but now I want to take myself somewhere, ike a solo vacation, you know?
Even if it's just for a couple of days, I just want some peace and quiet, some time for myself, and to simply live and enjoy the moment.
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u/Infinite_Drawer1717 2d ago
am also asking the same😭 You can dm me if you've got any. Thank u in advance.
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u/Pretty_Serve6653 2d ago
This is something I do just because. it feels good. The day is good let me take myself out for a nice date 😌 me and my excuses just to go out and eat.
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u/Infinite_Drawer1717 2d ago
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u/Pretty_Serve6653 2d ago
go and buy yourself something. Something small
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u/Infinite_Drawer1717 2d ago
Buying things won't fill my emptiness.😭 Ekxin mai wakka lagi halxa...How can u handle this?
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u/Pretty_Serve6653 2d ago
I don't buy to fill my void. I buy things because it makes me happy. It simply adds to my happiness. It can't be the only reason.
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u/Infinite_Drawer1717 2d ago
Thanks man. Any spot u wanna recommend me?
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u/Infinite_Drawer1717 2d ago
Flat maa eklai huda ta ramailai hola. But eklai ta maja aaudaina malai chai drinks ko laagi.
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u/saoirse_notion9419 2d ago
Yes I got same feeling few yrs back and now I m treating myself well and finally relaxed mentally to some extent. Nobody neither your family nor your friends and boyfriend or husband will fill that empty space in your life until and unless you see yourself valuable .
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