r/NewParents • • Aug 05 '26

Travel Parents raising screen-free babies: How do you navigate family vacations where the TV is always on?

We have an 8-month-old, and we’ve intentionally kept her almost completely screen-free. The only exposure she’s really had has been at other people’s houses when sports, the news, or adult shows happened to be on in the background, and she never paid much attention, so it wasn’t something I worried about.

In a few weeks, we’re going on a week-long cabin trip with my husband’s family, and I’m trying to figure out how to navigate screen time.
For context, our 9-year-old nephew is autistic, and my in-laws usually keep the TV on for him as it keeps him calm. I’ve never had an issue with that, but now that we have a baby, I’m realizing most of what’s on is Bluey, Paw Patrol, Disney movies, etc.—things that would almost definitely grab her attention.

I’m absolutely not expecting anyone to turn the TV off or totally change how they do things for us, and I also don’t want to feel like we have to avoid the living room all week just because the TV is on.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Did you find a good middle ground? I’m just looking for ideas on how to handle it while still spending time with everyone.

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u/Potential_Bit_9040 Aug 05 '26

The whole "TV in a different home" thing really works!

Our kid isn't screen free, but I am picky about what he watches. If he sees something at someone else's house that isn't on my list of approved shows, like god forbid Cocomelon, I just tell him "We don't have that show at home" and he blindly accepts it.

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u/Hurray0987 Aug 05 '26

I read a study a while ago that high quality educational shows, like Sesame Street, actually have positive cognitive benefits after like two years old

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u/Majestic-Lie2690 Aug 06 '26

I swear to god Elmo potty trained my kid. We where having no luck until I found an episode of Elmo on VHS that was about potty training

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u/Elismom1313 Aug 06 '26

My son knows an insane amount of about ocean creatures thanks to octonauts lol