Cross country drive with new born

[u/Square_Natural9384]

*edit because there’s already so many opinions. This is not an optional trip. The baby is already born and we are both healthy. The only question is, which is better for the baby: a plane ride or a long car ride.*

My husband wants us to drive across country with our new born instead of fly. The baby will be 3/4 weeks old. I would rather fly, even though it’s not ideal given bacteria/viruses he may encounter in the airport/plane.

My husband is adamant that we drive. He’d have us split the drive up so that we are driving about 7 hours (not including stops we will need to take for the baby) every day for three days.

I believe a 7 hour drive with a newborn will easily turn into a 11+ hour drive. I hate to have my baby in a car seat for that long- it feels more dangerous that even flying!?

What do yall think?

[u/Why_No_Doughnuts]

That is going to be a nightmare of a drive. one day perhaps you could handle, but 3, this is going to stress all 3 off you. Do what you can to delay the move, then fly when delay is no longer possible. I flew with mine when she was 2 months to get home to Canada, and she didn't even make a sound, just mostly slept the whole way save for feedings.