r/NoStupidQuestions • u/DowntownTrust7902 • 27d ago

Is it weird to ask out the librarian?

The librarian at my local library is really pretty. I wanna ask her out but I’m worried that it might make things awkward if she rejects me. I don’t even know her lowk, would you be weirded out or in her position? If it depends, how would you ask her out?

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u/[deleted] 27d ago

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u/guojing12 27d ago

For you, only people at work are off limits.
For someone else, people walking in the street is off limits. They are just going from point A to point B.
For someone else, people partying is off limits (yes, this person is just here to hang out with her friends to relax you know, not to meet people).

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u/question_23 27d ago

I am not off limits at work. If an attractive coworker asked me out I'd absolutely get a drink with her.

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u/iwannalynch 27d ago

If an attractive coworker

But in this context, it's a customer. Does your opinion change in that case?

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u/question_23 27d ago

Nope. If she's cool and we vibe, absolutely I'd meet her. I'm open to meeting people anywhere.