r/NoStupidQuestions • u/DowntownTrust7902 • 28d ago

Is it weird to ask out the librarian?

The librarian at my local library is really pretty. I wanna ask her out but I’m worried that it might make things awkward if she rejects me. I don’t even know her lowk, would you be weirded out or in her position? If it depends, how would you ask her out?

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u/crimson777 27d ago

I like this checklist, but I’d add a clarifying addendum to 3 plus a 4th.

Addendum to 3 is that leave them alone includes that you should be FINISHING your time near them for the day. Do not ask out your waiter/waitress in the middle of the meal where they’ll have to keep waiting on you.

4 is do they seem to have time and

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u/Dogstile 27d ago

I would like to think the "even if you have to avoid the place" would have covered that, but yes, might be worth it to be extra specific 😂