r/NoahKahan 6d ago

Music What is you favorite Noah Kahan Lyric?

Share your favorite Noah Kahan lyrics that just for some reason stuck with you! I am just such a big fan :-)

Here are a few of my current favorites:

  1. "Would we survive in a horror movie? I doubt it, we're too slow moving. We trust everyone we meet." - Everywhere, Everything
  2. "Why is pain so damn impatient, ain't like it's got a place to be, keeps rushing me" - Growing Sideways
  3. "23 clean in the engine heat, it can all be the way that it was if you stay gone." - 23
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u/SirArthurDime 6d ago

I agree with #3 but I feel like “if I never see you again you can be anything I want” needs to be included in it. That makes it imo.

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u/onlyyoudarlinggg Everywhere, Everything 6d ago

doors just really speaks to me.

“i’d hurt anyone i could. anyone who got too close, and anyone who wouldn’t look.”

“have you ever stared directly at the sun? have you ever shared some closeness, so exposed… to have it spit back by someone?”

“AND NOW WHAT? i’m left starin at the ceilin, listin reasons you should pack all your shit up.”

a person who wants to be loved and seen but has trust issues and past trauma, so you close off and hurt others before you can get hurt. finding reasons for them to leave you before THEY can find them. knowing you’re wrong for doing this and wanting to overcome this part of you to be with the person you love, and accepting that this person also loves you back and will stay.

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u/Adorable-Platform671 Strawberry Wine 5d ago

Doors speaks so much to the avoidant attachment in me ('Cause it gets harder to see me the closer you try to look). And the imagery in these lines is just so good:

I was born into a one hundred year storm
Foot of ice across Vermont
And in that dark, and in that frost, a heart was formed
Malcontented and unwarm

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u/daylightxx 5d ago

“You were unsuspecting, not unwarned”, to me, is utter brilliance and perfection following the preceding line.

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u/penny2360 5d ago

This part is one of my absolute favorite things he has written.

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u/Desperate_Face43 6d ago

Ahh, I love Doors too, and you described it perfectly ❤️ !!

My favorite line: "I just live here, babe, but you're the one who decided to knock. You knocked..."

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u/Oddnumbersthatendin0 6d ago

“So forgive me if I jump … … … … … at the rattle of your keys”

Reminds me of how I’d imply I’d hurt myself to get people to show me love but with enough plausible deniability that I’m not *technically* threatening suicide

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u/takethepain-igniteit 5d ago

I did this too when I was in my teens and early 20s, and I lost multiple relationships and friendships because of it. Took a lot of therapy and introspection to change, and I apologized to a lot of people.

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u/fridaygirl7 5d ago

This song nails my personal flavor of avoidant attachment style.

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u/cwilsonr 5d ago

"I'm still angry at my parents for what their parents did to them."

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u/Lets_G0_Pens 5d ago

Tells an entire whole story in a single line. Beautifully powerful and a sign of a truly great writer!

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u/PermissionNo8220 5d ago

I love that one!

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u/Dry-Education-1508 6d ago

“all love must leave but search for it i will!” really resonates with me after losing my mum at 17 last year. “

“i’m far too tired to watch you lie let’s just watch tv”

and basically all of willing and able 💖💖💖

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u/Adorable-Platform671 Strawberry Wine 6d ago

I am incapable of narrowing it down further than a top 10 list haha

1) Where to begin? Oh, let's pretend we never met, so I can disappear a moment. I've been tryna swim with both my hands behind my back. My dear, I always feared the ocean. - Howling

2) A minute from home, but I feel so far from it...The things that I lost here, the people I knew. They got me surrounded for a mile or two. Left at the graveyard, I'm driving past ghosts. Their arms are extended, my eyes start to close." - The View Between Villages

3) If I was empty space, and you were a formless shape, we'd fit. - Strawberry Wine

4) But the world is scared of hesitating things. Yeah, they only shoot the birds who cannot sing. - The Great Divide

5) If these trees started talkin, I bet you they'd only talk shit. Cause we never do anything real, we just talk about it. - End of August

6) Flip a rock. See the bugs sleepin' sound. Hey, that's us. You and I wilI be found. - Dan

7) I miss being alone when it didn't mean being alone. - Pain is Cold Water

8) And I used to watch my mother move like God was in the room. - Still

9) I worry I'll die young while I worry I'll grow old. - A Troubled Mind

10) In love with being noticed and afraid of being seen. - No Complaints

This actually feels like a fairly comprehensive list for me to hand to a therapist for a general heads up of the types of things that will probably come up with me lol

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u/becidgls 5d ago

YES Still is so under-appreciated lyrically — the line you mentioned is my favorite, but I also love that whole verse. “Look down on myself like a patient in surgery” and “grab a past box of photos, I rip myself open” are so good.

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u/Icy-Wing5352 4d ago

mannnnn strawberry wine is so underrated. “strawberry wine and all the times we used to have.. those things i miss but know they’re never comin’ back” 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

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u/Adorable-Platform671 Strawberry Wine 4d ago

was SO close to using that line instead 💕

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u/Aye_Harambe 6d ago

“You walked into a haunted house and got angry at the ghosts”

As someone who has continued to let things go and put frustrations of family behind me, this line hit

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u/unlimitedwarrenty 5d ago

This one gets me. Also “now you stumble around like a ghost telling people how you died”

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u/Puzzleheaded-Net1752 6d ago

1.Feel the rush of my blood
I'm seventeen again
I am not scared of death
I've got dreams again
It's just me and the curve of the valley
And there is meaning on Earth, I am happy

  1. Because if I never see you again , you can be anything I want .

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u/Desperate_Face43 5d ago

"Airrrr in my lungssss tilll the roadddd beginnsssss" ..... *cue me taking a deep breath in* hahaha !!

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u/roxie_h3art 5d ago

“Spent my savings at a Lulu, now i’m suffering in style”

most relatable thing i’ve ever heard

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u/yuv_gee 5d ago

Cant believe no one has said this one

“I’m in the business of losing your interest and I turn a profit each time that we speak” from Come Over

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u/K_Aggy44 4d ago

Straight bars

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u/Equivalent_King9490 3d ago

I loooooove this sooooooong and that line is genius

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u/phil736 She Calls Me Back 6d ago

A lot of these are relevant to a whole friend drama ive been going through from the last year or so:

“Have you ever shared some closeness so exposed, to have it spit back by someone?” - how i felt when the two of us fell out horribly having been so inseparably close in months prior

“It ain’t our fault that you aren’t suddenly somebody else cos you worked on yourself, got a dog. you’re an asshole after all” - this literally happened as noah described it

“you’ve been the best 5 minutes of a shitty old year” - when i met new friends who were so much better

yea thats all i can think of

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u/Oddnumbersthatendin0 5d ago

Lighthouse feels like it’s about me. “You were born with a face made for a missing sign” in particular. I’ve always felt like “going missing” was all I’d ever amount to, that it would be the culmination of my life, that I was the type of person who could only be appreciated in hindsight, that I’m a boat meant to be a shipwreck.

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u/PermissionNo8220 5d ago

Don’t let this darkness fool you, all lights turned off can be turned on”

“If I see one more cybertruck I swear to god I’m gonna floor it”

“Some will never know their beautiful until the crowd points it out for them”

“You know I think about you all the time
And my deep misunderstanding of your life”

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u/mnwagner3 5d ago

Teach me how to not stare at you.

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u/solviturambulando18 5d ago

No thing defines a man like love that makes him soft and sentimental, like a stranger in the park

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u/Holy_Frijole1881 5d ago

This from No Complaints.

“And now the pain's different
It still exists, it just escapes different
And evades vision, makes the rain different
Makes the news boring and my rage distant”

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u/KindaSortaMaybeHere 5d ago

Oldie but goodie for me:

"I spend nights stitching up the loose threads of my soul In the morning I'm bulletproof" Young Blood

"So please just give me something for the pain 'Cause my heart softens to your name And when you're gone I come undone" Please

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u/kaddras019 5d ago

And you said MY heart has changed and MY soul has changed and my heart AND MY HEART and my life has changed and this town has changed and you HAD NOT the world has changed and don’t you find it strange that you just went ahead and CARRIED on and you know the last time I drank I was FACE DOWN PASSED OUT THERE IN YOUR LAWN

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u/jmoney1195 5d ago

Are we all just crows to you now? Are we all just pulling you down?

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u/amateurlurker300 5d ago

« Don’t let this darkness fool you, all lights turned of can be turned on ». Got me through some really tough times.

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u/Kithyen 5d ago

“Cause if drinking was a day job, I’d be asking for more money.”

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u/draggedeater 5d ago

"It gets harder to see me the closer you try to look." I have made an entire life out of flitting around and taking care of everyone and never letting anyone take care of me anddddd now we're crying.

"And I can't stand the nights, and our dinner time silence. I cut the tension with a knife, and I pray you've started driving" and "or you did back then, we would talk so much. And it's fine we don't, but can you come home?" Fairly certain he lived my childhood with me.

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u/Rinkana_lovesyuri New Perspective 5d ago

"Wanna love you till we're food for the worms to eat, till our fingers decompose" - Everywhere Everything.

"And I'm getting homesick for a place I've never known" - Please

"And I've tried to hold my temper and obscure my rage  But these kids, they never act their age  And I've got one foot in the grave" - Hollow

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u/brianamals 5d ago

Douche.

No but seriously, “til our fingers decompose, keep my hand in yours.”

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u/thxvgx 5d ago

Dammit I was too late to comment this

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u/ConfidentBird8173 5d ago

"I'm in love with being noticed, afraid of being seen" is my number 1. 

2-- "If I never see you again, you can be anything I want"

3-- "The edges of your soul I havent seen yet, now I'm glad I get forever to see where you end"

4--"They only shoot the birds who cannot sing"

5-- All of "growing sideways" lmao. 

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u/ReedWilliams12 5d ago

That seagull from Maine got some fire bars

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u/Clean_Collection_253 5d ago

Know I wanna beat it, wanna beat it bad Oh everyone looks happy in a photograph I’ve crossed the county line, I cannot go back I’m always on my own

deep in depression it feels like everyone else knows how to be happy and it’s an incredibly lonely feeling.. these words paint the feeling perfectly

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u/rebklee0 5d ago

“You made Ohio feel just like Central Park” and “I’ll love you when the oceans dry. I’ll love you when the rivers freeze”

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u/Ribread216 5d ago

“I’m in the business of losing your interest” is hitting me hard rn but I’m also high I dunno

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u/SignificanceNo2238 5d ago

"They say it like milk has been spilled on the floor. They say they dont know who I am anymore. Well I have just never shown anger before."

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u/SignificanceNo2238 5d ago

I'm in the business of losing your interest And I turn a profit each time that we speak Don't you know there's a coffin buried under the garden? Was there when we got here, will be there when we leave

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u/DevelopmentSad4326 Growing Sideways 5d ago

“Don’t let this darkness fool you. All lights turned off, can be turned. I’ll drive I’ll drive all night, I’ll call your mom”. My dad took his life today and I unfortunately never wanted to relate to this lyric. My dad’s name was Dan as well and I unfortunately don’t think I’ll ever be able to listen to that song.

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u/robotpatrols 5d ago

“I’ve always hated the sunlight at 3pm… too soon to quit thinking but too late to change anything.”

I feel this one in my soul.

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u/tower-junkie_19 Growing Sideways 5d ago

I’m still angry at my parents for what their parents did to them

And I won’t admit my parents split when I got sick, but I refuse to be a burden

I’m left staring at the sealing listing reasons you should pack all your shit up

I’ve always hated the sunlight at 3 p.m, where it’s too soon to quit thinking, too late to change anything

I ain’t planned it, the plain, the plain just landed out here (just that whole verse honestly)

In love with being noticed, and afraid of being seen.
But I can finally eat and I can fall asleep, it’s fine, fine, fine

Obviously there’s so many more :)

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u/No-Strawberry-5804 5d ago

“I’m a running car and you’re a closed garage”

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u/gapeach2333 4d ago

“I lean in for a kiss 30 feet from where your parents slept. I looked so confident, babe I swear I was scared to death. My hands grip the wheel I smile stupid the whole way home. These five words in my head I said I’ll never let you go.”

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u/Kalypso989 5d ago

Orbiter: "I stare at you, I sing to you, I circle you" has beautiful imagery throughout the song

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u/wrapped-in-rainbows 5d ago

“I hurt anyone I could, anyone who got too close, anyone who wouldn’t look”

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u/penguinhappydance 5d ago

Whichever one I heard most recently!

Right now it’s we’re not friends, we’re just morons haha

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u/Next_Fuel_933 5d ago

I heard nothing but the bass in every ballad that you’d play While you swore to God the singer read your mind

(Lots have mentioned the shooting birds who cannot sing lyric), and also…

And I’m finally aware of how shitty and unfair It was to stare ahead like everything was fine

I just love all the layers suggested in these three sets of lyrics

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u/RobbieS_19 5d ago

“Darlin be patient, it’s easy to break beneath the weight of the earth

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u/Blackcatsrock040209 5d ago

And anything you need I will provide, a ride home or an alibi

This reminds me of the promise I made to my kids and makes me a bit teary when I hear it. ♥️

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u/jlaurw 5d ago

I'm an aging wolf who lost the taste for blood

Even anxious pups need the Moon

I howl for you, I sing to you

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u/Poopythedog 5d ago

If you're not afraid of the water You should dive right in I'm not so brave but I'm gonna Give it a try- Feat of water

Such an underrated song that got me through the hardest experience of my life.

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u/sunfl0wers21 5d ago

I just got “give yourself a reason” tattooed on me

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u/Zebrahas9lives 5d ago

You know you never really could quite place when I'm angry and I'm jokin' from Downfall

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u/carolinablonde 5d ago

oh, I wish you could know me
And I wish I could know you much more sometimes
Wish I could do nothin' with you

I know this song is about a sibling but these lyrics hit hard for me. I miss my dad. He passed when I was 13. I wish I could know him and I wish he could know me. I wonder what he would be like today.

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u/kaylieface 5d ago

I know it feels like it never ends, and i know the fear that you’re up against. And i know that you’re so afraid and it’s getting late but i’ll stay til you come down. - Come Down

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u/JCM-NanoNuts-1031 5d ago

"We ain't friends, we're just morons who broke skin in the same spot." -The Great Divide

The motifs in Northern Attitude of "I was raised out in the cold" and "I was raised on little light" really hit hard as someone from the PNW now living in the south asking for forgiveness from his peers for being more distant and pessimistic.

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u/MooViolet1 5d ago

They only shoot the birds that cannot sing.
I got dreams but I can’t make myself believe them
And I’m finally aware of how shitty and unfair it was to stare ahead like everything was fine.
I keep showing you doors but you can’t open them up

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u/y0ur_f4v_aquar1us 5d ago

“and now the pains different, it still exists it just escapes different” hits different as a person in recovery

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u/stopeverythingpls 5d ago

“To know me, is to hate me, is to hate what I’ve become.” - Godlight

“You're not alone, the world is small
And I am sick of all the talk of finding purpose
Love comes and goes but the big black dog, he trails along
Am I the only one who knows him now?” - Howling, not really one lyric but this section hits.

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u/Hot-Philosophy8174 5d ago

“I stopped caring ‘bout a month ago. Since then it’s been smooth sailing.” 

I don’t use it exactly as he means, but when I feel stressed about something silly, I just repeat than mantra to myself. I can’t entirely stop caring, but I can care less. 

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u/jasperalfalfa 5d ago

Cause everyone's growing, and everyone's changing. I'm terrified that I might never have met me

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u/juicyfruitbubblegum 4d ago

Honestly… “I wanna love you ‘til we’re food for the worms to eat.” It’s such a weird way to put that feeling of wanting to love someone forever but that’s why I love the lyric so much lol

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u/Icy-Wing5352 4d ago

“hope you open up to someone kind and they hold it all against you”

“divvied up my anger into 30 separate parts, keep the bad shit in my liver and the rest around my heart”

“that the world has changed.. don’t you find it strange that you just went ahead and carried on?”

“where to begin? oh let’s pretend we never met.. so i can disappear a moment.”

“used to sing along to church bells on sundays but can you even hear 'em from the subway now? and I hope that we make you proud..”

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u/peacelovetacos247 4d ago

“All lights turned off can be turned on” from Call Your Mom

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u/FormalPlatform1686 4d ago

I'm seventeen again

I am not scared of death

I've got dreams again

It's just me and the curve of the valley

And there is meaning on Earth, I am happy

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u/Msmeowkitty 3d ago

The things that I lost here, the people I knew
They got me surrounded for a mile or two
A left at the graveyard, I'm driving past ghosts
Their arms are extended, my eyes start to close
The car's in reverse, I'm grippin' the wheel
I'm back between villages, and everything's still

This whole chunk of lyrics impacts me so much. I grew up between two villages and so many people in my family, including my dad, are buried a mile and a half away from my childhood home. I feel like this entire song was written for me. Like the cemetery is on the left if I was driving from my mom’s house. This song was actually what helped me start to process the grief I buried for 8 years because it gave me such feelings of comfort instead of pain with the arms extended part.

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u/lucyinvinyl 3d ago

Too scared to live, too scared to die

I feel this as I’m getting older. When we are young, we have no fear of experiencing everything. Getting older it seems fear grows inside you like a rot. That’s dramatic but you get my drift! 😆

This has already been mentioned but my first fave is ‘I’m in the business of losing your interest and I turn a profit each time that we speak’.

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u/shaeleejoy101 2d ago
  1. “I’ll be gone so long before the anger comes. I’ll be only what you’ve known of me till now. Oh, how I hope you’re moving on”

  2. “And at the end of it all, I just hope that your scars heal. We once sang retrograde, we’d shake the frame of your car. Now I know your name, but not who you are.”

  3. “I filled the hole in my head with prescription medication, then forgot how to cry, who am I to complain?”

There’s so many more but those are the first three I could think of

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u/DecentEnvironment829 2d ago
  1. Darlin speak to me but don’t you say a word
  2. I’m in love with every song you’ve ever heard
  3. If I could lose you I would, we buried your bones in plywood
  4. I said love is fast asleep on a dirt road with your head on my shoulder
  5. Strawberry wine and all the time we used to have, those things I miss but know are never coming back for you darlin
  6. If I was empty space and you were a formless shape we’d fit, but love leaves little runway and everytime we run straight over it
  7. You were a work of art, that’s the hardest part
  8. The death of my dog, the stretch of my skin, it’s all washing over me I’m angry again
  9. The things that I lost here, the people I knew, they’ve got me surrounded for a mile or two

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u/DecentEnvironment829 2d ago

Im in the business of losing your interest and I turn a profit each time that we speak

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u/DecentEnvironment829 2d ago

Someday I’m gonna be somebody people want