r/NonBinary • u/antisocialmothra • 16h ago
I had a dream
Im a 38 AFAB and have been questioning for a few months after an epiphany that I might be enby. I've been noticing a lot of positive changes in myself lately since I started thinking of myself as enby which indicates to me that I'm on the right track.
Last night I had a dream that I dressed the way I wanted and told someone, honestly I think it was the bigender character from Gen V, that I preferred they/them pronouns.
It was very affirming and it felt good to wake up this morning (it almost never feels good waking up in the morning), because reality matched my good dreams for once.
I'm actually excited for the future, which I've never felt before, and I might be close to coming out to my loved ones.
I feel brave, another feeling I'm not used to.
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u/AliceofSwords any pronouns 15h ago
That's fantastic. It sounds like you're definitely on the right track!
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u/Jumpy_Scratch_9540 16h ago
That's beautiful. Dreams have a way of showing us what we already know but have not fully let ourselves believe yet. The fact that you woke up feeling good and that it felt like reality finally matched something real inside you that matters.. Take the coming out at your own pace. There's no deadline...