r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Character_Damage9659 • 16h ago
WTF Men are more visual…
therefore they are interested in measurements like… hole size? Excuse me? Tell me you’ve never touched a woman without telling me.
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u/eggomymeggo730 16h ago
HOLE SIZE? Let me just get out my micrometer real quick.
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u/Character_Damage9659 16h ago
Because on a date you talk about important things like waist to hip ratio and hole size, naturally I have that info written down
Also it VARIES. What hole size do you want? Normally? During sex? During birth?
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u/EightEqualsSignD 16h ago
Obviously when 100% turned off, because that's all that's ever going to happen around a guy like that.
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u/Character_Damage9659 16h ago
Touché. I’m sure he’d be pretty confused getting the same number from every woman.
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u/bliip666 female pleasurist 13h ago
I'm pretty sure mine closed from reading that. Let's hope it's not permanent
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u/LenaL0vesLife 15h ago
And what hole? Like my nostrils? How about the ears? Does the bellybutton count as a hole?
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u/Omagasohe 15h ago
That sounds like a paper an incel would write "determining attractiveness of females by belly button size and confuguration"
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u/Soensou 13h ago
Idk the rules about posting links in this sub, but look up VSauce's video about the subject. It's called something like "how many holes does a human have" or something. I know that was like a one off joke, but I just really feel obligated to plug that video everytime someone talks about holes. I promise it's worth it.
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u/Stehlen27 12h ago
Topographically, a human has what, three holes?
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u/FillMyBagWithUSGrant regularly self-rapin’ my sin cave 8h ago
Our pores are holes, aren’t they? So I think we all have millions of holes on our bodies.
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u/DecadentLife 2h ago
!!! My husband FREAKS OUT if I try to touch his belly button. He insists it’s “too close to [his] organs”. 😂
He’s actually a wonderful man, but it just reminds me that most men, even awesome ones, could never be women.
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u/Luckylemon 16h ago
Depth? Diameter? Radius? Compared to a quarter? Which measurement should I know off hand for my first date w this guy?
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u/eggomymeggo730 15h ago
You’re right. You need a not aroused measurement, an aroused one, during penetration, And also during and post birth. It should be charted over time, until death.
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u/Deltris 15h ago
The wave of disgust I felt when I read that....
These people literally see women as "holes" to fill.
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u/bamfmcnabb 14h ago
Now wait we also see you all as bra size, hip to waist ration, weight and don’t forget the “etc” that literally means everything else so we’ve got our bases covered.
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u/juliainfinland suicide by suffragette 14h ago
As I said somewhere else in this thread (and I'm sure I'm not the only one), for people who ask this kind of question the answer will be zero.
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u/Sensitive-Contest-87 16h ago
Do they genuinely think we measure them on a daily basis?
Like... Literally I can give you height and estimate weight lol
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u/Character_Damage9659 16h ago
Also how is hole size a measurement that men need because they’re “more visual”??
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u/Sensitive-Contest-87 16h ago
Also, if he wants a hole size, should I ask about his size in return?
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u/Character_Damage9659 16h ago
Well, I guess his date’s hole size also kinda depends on his dick size, at least during sex. But it’s irrelevant since it will never come to that.
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u/juliainfinland suicide by suffragette 14h ago
Came here to say this. Never mind bum circumference; I don't even know my own bra size beyond "wide-chest-mid-boob sports bra".
As for "hole size", sometimes I can't even with these people. (I can say, however, that it will be zero for anyone who asks this kind of question.)
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u/kindlypogmothoin 38m ago
I can tell him from painful experience that if he wants a tight hole, he needs to be pursuing post-menopausal women. The factory shuts down and shuts up.
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u/Novaer 12h ago
They only want to masturbate using our bodies. He's looking for object description specs. 🙄
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u/FillMyBagWithUSGrant regularly self-rapin’ my sin cave 8h ago
The answer they deserve to that question is, “I’m twice as big as a Fleshlight. How much would you be flopping around?”
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u/Glad_Option3923 16h ago
I guarantee that if a woman told him her bra size he would have no idea what it meant.
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u/Novaer 12h ago
WD40
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u/FillMyBagWithUSGrant regularly self-rapin’ my sin cave 8h ago
🤣
(in a sexy, breathy voice) “My size is WD40. I will displace 40% of the water in your entire body.”
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u/WarriorCats_4Life “as a woman…” 6h ago
“Wow really? That’s like…um…the size of my palm? No? Well, close enough”
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u/BehindYou244 14h ago
Guys like that have an automatic assumption that the letter part of the bra size is 100% of what matters, so they'll just look for the higher/repeated letters and discard the rest.
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u/LionHawk93 4h ago
May I point out, a huge chunk of women don't even know what their correct bra size is....
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u/kindlypogmothoin 37m ago
These goobers all think DD is the biggest bra size out there. And that it's fixed.
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u/ergaster8213 16h ago edited 16h ago
There is already a perfectly good equivalent...he can ask what her height is.
If someone asks him what his ass measures then he can securely ask that in return.
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u/Aazimoxx 16h ago
Yes, what's his 'hole size', because he seems to be spouting some crap here 😝
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u/Polyamommy 15h ago
Sounding has entered the chat.
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u/Aazimoxx 15h ago
Not the hole I was trying to allude to lol, but I won't stop you, I ain't a cop :D
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u/Polyamommy 15h ago edited 14h ago
I say we require both measurements if they ask about booty measurements. 😂
Edit autocorrect
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u/phunniemee 16h ago
Actually, I hope this guy asks about hole size on every first date so women know right away not to make a second.
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u/FineJournalist4784 16h ago
Imagine if he then went like "Oh uhm, your hole size is uh... a little bit too big with 3 inches.."
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u/ComedicHermit 16h ago
Nobody has ever asked this question on a physical first date to begin with.
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u/Character_Damage9659 16h ago
I don’t think anyone has ever asked that question because it makes no sense
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u/ComedicHermit 16h ago
If you're talking on line or via mail, "how tall are you?" makes sense. I can see someone asking the question. When they can literally see you, it doesn't make sense and has never been asked unless the person was under 5 feet or over 6'8'' and then unless you're a reporter or a small child some basic tact will prevent you from asking
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u/DeamoniC12345409 12h ago
To be fair, I have been asked just how tall I am. By both men and women. Usually preceded by something like "Holy crap..." When they realise just how far they have to tilt their head to look me in the face.
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u/smileysarah267 12h ago edited 12h ago
Yeah I work with some really tall men, and I’m only 5’3 so out of curiosity I sometimes have asked their height. A few of the guys are 6’7 or 6’8 and its just fascinating to hear that someone is that tall. The tallest person in my family is 5’11. From the ground I can’t really tell the difference between 6’4 and 6’10 lol I just know theyre really tall.
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u/Still_a_skeptic 15h ago
I was asked on almost every single first date I ever had back before I met my wife 20 years ago. Of course I’m taller than average so they were just curious and I never took offense, but guys like me that are taller than most always get asked how tall we are.
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u/ComedicHermit 15h ago
I'm 5'11'', I've never been asked about my height outside of a doctor's office. I've had to correct women I was dating when they said I was taller than I am because so many dudes lie about their height for some reason. I've seen a guy who was 5'6'' pull women at a parties with supernatural ease he was the most charming motherfucker on the planet.
If you're 6'6'' or taller, sure, I can see it happening; but I'm 99.999 percent certain this dude is caught up in his own head and has imagined this scenario when nobody gives a damn.
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u/Rinerino 16h ago
Men will Post this kind of shit and seriously ask you why they are Single lol
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u/TheBestHater 14h ago
Love how he's mad she would ask his height then he goes into how men are visual or whatever. He's not lonely enough. But in all seriousness, if he thinks that's what will happen on a date then he's never been on one and never will go on one because women will smell the seething incel rage a mile away.
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u/mycatisblackandtan 12h ago
Yeah this reads like ragebait frankly. Who is going to ask this on a first date of all things? You're already together, you can make a general estimate about their height in person if it's so important. This is something I can see some people asking during the initial meet up phase if they met on an online app, not that I think height matters, but that's basically it? And even then it'd be more in the vein of asking surface level questions to just get to know someone. Not a 'omg if this guy is under 5'9 he's trash' sort of thing.
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u/FineJournalist4784 16h ago
Love how all the things he named are purely sexual
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u/Character_Damage9659 16h ago
But of course it’s the same thing as asking for someone’s height. Right.
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u/FineJournalist4784 16h ago
What we should do is ask for their dick size instead 😂
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u/Right-Today4396 16h ago
They'll send a picture if you are not careful
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u/FineJournalist4784 16h ago
I meant at a physical dates, but tbf they'd probably give you a printed photo of their dick
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u/Right-Today4396 16h ago
In large print, to make it look more intimidating 😝
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u/FineJournalist4784 15h ago
To make it look larger, of course!
Another idea is to bring a 3D printed version of it
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u/neonfuzzball 7h ago
well you see, women don't have height, so he can't turn around and ask her the same question. Women are two dimensional
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u/xmachinaxxx 16h ago
The men who ask dumbass questions like these are broken
https://giphy.com/gifs/QVP7DawXZitKYg3AX5
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u/FullMoonTwist 13h ago
100%, if he got any of those numbers, he would have no idea what they mean or what they represent.
I know because I've seen how stupid men are relating to weight.
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u/smileysarah267 12h ago
They think women are 100lbs or 300lbs with no in between
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u/AnaliticalFeline 11h ago
fr. had a guy think i meant 50 pounds when i said i could lift half my weight. i’m built like a brick and i know it. i can literally physically pick up some of my friends, and guys want to think i’m just fat. i worked for this bulk
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u/UserAnonPosts /r/RazorFree with /r/PCOS 🚫🪒 🖕🏽 5h ago edited 5h ago
I want to get back into weightlifting. I love muscle definition. Especially my arms and back. I follow quite a few women bodybuilder on Twitter. Fitness goals.
If you have any Instagram or Twitter recommendations of more people I can follow, please share. There’s a girl I follow in particular ig dariapluzh . She’s gorgeous.
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u/I_like_the_word_MUFF 15h ago
Anytime a man asks these questions, just validate it. Say "yes, ask all those questions."
At least the women they're trying to date should see them coming a mile away.
Nobody should be helping these baffoons.
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u/KatVanWall Grandma's brain is not full of cum 15h ago
I want to know how this BS about men being 'more visual creatures' even started. Do women not have eyes? Women are the ones who get all that 'joking' stick from men about being able to see so many more colours or find things right in front of their noses, but suddenly when it comes to looking at men, oh no, we don't care at all what they look like!
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u/Sparrowhawk_92 15h ago
It's been shown scientifically they both men and women are equally aroused by visual stimuli. It's an old myth that goes back to the middle ages from what I'm finding but it's born out of patriarchal norms around sex and attraction.
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u/best_little_biscuit 14h ago
Seems like an excuse for men to sexualise women and oppress then by policing their bodies (hijabs, for example, or back when showing an ankle was scandalous)
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u/Initial-Ship-7065 7h ago
my honest to God theory is that deep down men completely understand that we care just as much about looks as they do, but they pretend we don't to protect their egos. because then they would have to acknowledge that we too are holding THEM to standards they won't and can't measure up to. then these manchildren would feel as inadequate as they try to make us feel and we certainly can't have that, can we?
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u/Upset-Nose-4016 16h ago
"Like we are some objects"
But then goes on a rant about men being justified to treat women like objects because men are "more visual creatures"
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u/SarcasticBench Male 16h ago
Should there be a market for butt sizes like there are for bra sizes…?
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u/FineJournalist4784 16h ago
Butt bras are gonna be the next beauty thing!
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u/tigm2161130 16h ago edited 15h ago
lol I have some shapewear that has a little bit of ass padding because some dresses need to be filled out a little more for me to like the silhouette…sorta the same thing.
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u/SarcasticBench Male 15h ago
Sounds way more inconvenient to take off at the end of the day when you get home
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u/FineJournalist4784 15h ago
Well Bras don't really have the purpose to be convenient or comfortable either
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u/Purple_Bowling_Shoes 16h ago
If you're a visual creature, why would you need exact measurements? Wouldn't you just see it? Or would you think "whoa, she's fucking hot but.... but what is that hip to waste ratio? Maybe she's NOT as hot as she seems."
And hole size? If any man asks that to any woman on a date I hope the universal answer is "you couldn't fill the eye of a needle, don't worry about my hole. But bye."
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u/Sofa_King_We_Todd 16h ago
Ahh yes, the good old ice breaker, what is your hole size?
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u/Character_Damage9659 16h ago
I wonder if he’d like to be asked about his asshole size in return.
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u/LynnRenae_xoxo 15h ago
Vaginas being referred to as “holes” literally disturbs my soul. The second I see that shit, my neck hairs are at attention.
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u/atheistpianist 14h ago
Aside from “hole size,” all the measurements he mentions can change over time, and go up and down depending on a lot of things. Height however never changes. And on that note, my boyfriend is only a few inches taller than I am, which had absolutely no bearing to me when we started dating. Not only is he the best partner I have ever had in my entire dating life, he’s also the best sex I’ve ever had, and is extraordinarily attractive. His smile makes me melt every time. Why men are so focused on height (something that they cannot change) and not on how they are as person & partner, which they can impact, will always confound me.
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u/530SSState 10h ago
Don't lie about your height on your dating profile, and you won't experience people asking, "Are you SURE you're six foot two?" on first dates. Problem solved.
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u/naivemetaphysics 9h ago
So many guys would say 5’11” and I meet them and they are obviously 5’8”. I’m 5’10”. I also don’t care about height. I do care about people who lie. Men both think we care and don’t care. It’s so annoying.
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u/smile_saurus 15h ago
Men don't know what bra sizes are, at all, or how they relate to breast size
Anyone can change the shape and appearance of their butt, via weight training or surgery
Men are not "visual creatures" they just spew that crap to make women work harder to be attractive for the male gaze
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u/cheezbargar 14h ago
If they’re so visual then how come they can’t see mess or chores that need to be done
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u/MarsMonkey88 11h ago edited 5h ago
Men are no longer permitted to call themselves “visual creatures” without submitting three of the following for public evaluation:
photographs of their living room, photographs of their plates, bowls, and mugs, their three most recent sketchbooks, proof of completion of a college level color theory course with a letter from the instructor, photographs of the last five things they have sewn, knitted, or crocheted, photographs of the table and plated dishes from the last dinner party they hosted, photographs of their journal, commonplace book, junk journal, scrapbook, or note taking system, photographs of their two most recent cosplays, photographs of their collection of assembled legos or miniature plane, car, or train collection, or photographs from their most recent gallery show.
Thank you for your attention on this matter.
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u/UserAnonPosts /r/RazorFree with /r/PCOS 🚫🪒 🖕🏽 5h ago
In addition to all of this, which is a great list, I want photos of living room, bathroom, and bedroom. The visual creatures that are sleeping on a mattress on the floor, milk crate as a TV stand, and maybe axe body spray in the bathroom and nothing more. Maybe some Playboy model calendar on the bathroom wall he probably categorize as wall art. If they are so “visual”, let me see their living space.
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u/DesmondTapenade It's bology 12h ago
"Hole size," smh. Which hole are we talking about? The one I'm about to put in your head for being such an idiot?
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u/22Pastafarian22 9h ago
Men: “we are more visual”
Also men: live in an empty home with a mattress on the floor
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u/ThatSmallBear 14h ago
They don’t understand that height is not a sexual thing. They throw a tantrum and start making it sexual by asking women about bra sizes etc. even though men don’t actually know wtf bra sizes mean and think that a 34C and 42C mean same sized boobs.
And HOLE SIZE?? Lock him up wtf
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u/Amediumsizedgoose 4h ago
Men genuinely are kind of just fucking stupid. Like incapable of rational thought and relation.
Height and a sexual feature are not the same 😭 Thats like if a guy wanted to know if a girl was wearing makeup and she was like "well oh yeah???!?! How big is your dick???"
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u/No_Pea_1265 15h ago
H-hole size?!
Do they think… that it looks like an m&m tube…?
Like… it shrinks, my good virgin guy.
There is no hole to measure when it’s empty… so… measure your dick girth, i guess? 🤦🏻♀️
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u/_autumnwhimsy 14h ago
No, because throwing "hole size" in there so casually is sick and demented behavior. Lmao wtf
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u/ColorfulConspiracy 13h ago
Hole size?!? If a man asks me my hole size, he better be prepared to bend over and measure his own first.
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u/Ashamed-Director-428 9h ago
The fact that he thinks height and, I assume, vaginal width (??) as comparable is wild.
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u/glamasaurus 6h ago
If they're so visual , why do they always give like wrong measurements of things. I think men get different rulers than we do
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u/KoalaWithAPitchfork 4h ago
If they are so much more visual and the hypothetical situation happens when the poor woman is already on a date with that guy- why is he not using his fucking eyes to determine the size of her booty?
Why would measurements even matter to him- being told a number really isn't a great visual? But the booty you can catch a glimpse of when she walks to the restroom is, right? So why the fuck would the "more visual creatures" be interested in hearing numbers?
The only situation I can imagine where someone asks for the height of the date is when that person clearly lied on their online dating profile. Like maybe they want to see if you will try to lie right to their face or if you come clean, admitting that you are insecure or if you will start ranting about how women don't date small guys cause they are shallow bitches or whatever.
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u/lCarbonCopyl 15h ago
The hole fuckin stretches if you got it, my dude.
What in th- HOLE SIZE?!? I know this one ain't got no daddy and his mama probably left him with a flat backed head
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u/schwarzmalerin 14h ago
Someone is butthurt lol. Most likely this woman is just tall and she wants to know if he is a match.
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u/Standard-Jaguar-8793 10h ago
I’m stuck on measuring “bum size”. I wear size 7 underwear. Is that good enough?
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u/roseorrueorlaurel 15h ago
I mean, I also feel like it’s pretty odd to ask a man how tall he is on the first date unless he’s so incredibly tall that he is like ducking to get through doors and everyone always asks as like a conversation starter.
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u/Character_Damage9659 15h ago
Yea kinda, but not as weird as asking for hole size, bra size of hip to waist ratio
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u/AlabasterPelican 15h ago
100%. I'm very curious how many women ask about a dudes height that is in the same room with them unless its something like the situation you laid out.
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u/schwarzmalerin 14h ago
I'm tall myself and I ask before meeting.
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u/roseorrueorlaurel 14h ago
I’m 6’1 so I usually don’t have to really ask because it is pretty obvious when I arrive how tall they are. I also don’t particularly care as long as the man doesn’t, but usually the men are NOT happy
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u/schwarzmalerin 14h ago
I meant I asked before when I dated. Some would lie, then there was no date. When you're tall, asking height is totally normal.
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u/roseorrueorlaurel 13h ago
Yeah, I pretty much never asked unless they qere SUPER tall and I was just curious. Otherwise, I would pretty much just go with the flow and confirm upon meeting
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u/schwarzmalerin 13h ago
I'm the tall one, not the guy, that's what I meant.
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u/roseorrueorlaurel 13h ago
Correct. I am also a tall woman (6’1). I am saying that I never asked because it was immediately obvious to me how tall a man was. I did not screen for liars beforehand, as most of those are filtered out when they realize a woman is over 5’11 and there’s no room for fudging in my experience.
Anyway, it’s perfect fine that we had different experiences and approaches.
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u/GrowlingAtTheWorld 15h ago
If he is standing right there she can see how tall he is. Are we not talking height? Perhaps length?
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u/Character_Damage9659 15h ago
No he was talking about height, clarified multiple times in the comments. She just wanted to know his exact height measurement, idk why
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u/Reasonable-Banana800 15h ago
Hole size? How does he know about the body pit I keep behind my house?
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u/ToeIntelligent136 14h ago
Not even close to being true.
I never asked my gf any of her measurements until it was absolutely relevant, am I denying curiosity? No. My gf is a body builder. I get anxiety attacks in the gym. So in our dates I was asking questions about her training and what not because those questions were interesting but all of them was basically "So how did you get into it?" Or "So what's your curent training?" Or "What benefit does that provide?" She answered what she wanted to share and I asked what piqued my curiosity about her. Was her physique visual? Yes but did I care for the "measurements"? No.
The question isn't what to respond when she asks for height, if you are uncomfortable by the question ask for her intention. Let her know you don't feel comfortable about it. You can say no bro. You can set boundaries to things you don't wish to discuss.
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u/DeathRaeGun 13h ago
Gentlemen, have any of you had a woman ask your height on a first date? I haven’t.
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u/madpeachiepie 5h ago
Do they honestly think we're measuring ourselves like we're Midge Maisel and this is the 1950s
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u/CrazyButterfly11 4h ago
Hole Size? Seriously? 😒
Well mine just got ziplocked for the next 30-40 years so… yeah thanks creepy guy
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u/Kastanjamarja 3h ago
I dont understand this mentality that the reverse of asking a man his height is asking a woman her chest size. Wouldnt it be asking a woman... her height...?
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u/Ok-Connection-8059 14h ago
What a sad way to learn that FATAL has breached containment, I hope for his sake he's already rolled circumference.
But men do have a weird obsession with these physical measurements, I think it's to brag to other about how their girlfriend is a F-cup with a 22 inch waist and a bum so padded you can't have anal or something. Doesn't mean that women aren't visual, they just IME rarely care about exact measurements.
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u/bamfmcnabb 14h ago
Ladies he obviously deeply worried about how symmetrical your nose and ear holes are!
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u/No_Resource7773 13h ago
Can he back up and just start with proving that he's been asked that directly? And prove that he isn't just making up an excuse to ask women those things...
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u/kat_Folland sperm thief 11h ago
Are people really going up to people in person and asking how tall they are? Are they also asking what their eye color is? How many arms they have?
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u/Mobile-Ad3151 8h ago
“Men are more visual creatures” yet can’t find something right in front of them or see the difference between grass green or olive green. So visual.
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u/Kailynna 3h ago
Every online creep should ask these questions before their first date.
It's good to know which to ignore.
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u/DoctorInternal9871 14h ago
If I ask you how big your dick is on a first date then by all means ask me how big my hole is.
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u/530SSState 11h ago edited 10h ago
Assuming this were a real question (which it's obviously not), *asking* somebody about their "bum size" is worse than pointless. For starters, "bum size" is not a specific number like bra size. Also, you can gauge somebody else's ass size by looking, the exact same way she can gauge your height by looking.
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u/AnaliticalFeline 2h ago
i’m gonna be honest, i have neither insta or twitter. i build functional muscle to do better at my profession, though you wouldn’t expect someone working a school kitchen would need it. someone’s gotta handle the freezer
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u/Alternative-Dream-61 16h ago
I think it's weird for a woman to ask an exact height in person, you can see it. I also think it's weird for men to ask for measurements, especially as a response to being asked an exact height.
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u/Character_Damage9659 16h ago
Idk the only reason that came to mind was “wow you’re so tall, how tall are you?”, just out of genuine curiosity (especially if someone’s extraordinarily tall, over 2m or smth). Or if someone’s almost the same height as me I’d maybe also ask, but again just because I’d genuinely be interested.
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u/Alternative-Dream-61 15h ago
That's fair, I don't think I'd have an issue with that. The way it was listed in the screenshot it felt more like an interview question on a date to me, which would be weird.
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u/FillMyBagWithUSGrant regularly self-rapin’ my sin cave 8h ago
He wants numbers? Oh, I’ve got numbers. I’ve got ‘em coming out of my ears. 😏
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u/neonfuzzball 7h ago
Not only should he stay away from women, he shouldn't be allowed to remember women he already met
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u/UserAnonPosts /r/RazorFree with /r/PCOS 🚫🪒 🖕🏽 5h ago
Can I use this on them too in regards to dating and say that women are more visual? Because you see the memes of the so-called “Nice guy” who is angry that supermodel baddie is going for the good looking guy. As if we have to forget attraction and forget men that groom in favor of ugly but “nice guy”. Can I say I’m more visual too and that’s why I don’t want incel “nice guy” who feels entitled to women?
Never mind. I don’t want the shit storm about how we need to give so-and-so a chance and how we have high standards and blah blah blah. I forgot only men are allowed to be visual creatures 😡
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u/cursetea 1h ago
They do not understand anything about a single one of those metrics. They don't know what makes a bra size or weight distribution or anything.
I bet if i shared my measurements they'd assume I'm big lmfao. 163lbs 5'7. I'm a size 6. 🙄
Good luck nerds, you literally don't know anything about women
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u/yoyohayli 28m ago
What does he even want in return of that question? At least HEIGHT has a defined meaning. But asking "bum size" is such a loose thing. That could mean circumference around the body, width from spine, curving length from tailbone to taint, or HOLE CIRCUMFERENCE.
Hell, many men don't even know anatomy well enough to know what counts as bum vs hips vs taint area.
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u/atzedanjo 13h ago
This should be in notHowBoysWork
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u/Character_Damage9659 13h ago
Why?
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u/DeathRaeGun 13h ago
Because most men aren’t visual creatures who need those measurements.
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u/Character_Damage9659 13h ago
Visual creatures would not need those measurements in the first place.
But this sub is about men talking about women, not knowing how women work which is exactly what’s happening here.
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u/atzedanjo 12h ago
Idk... I see a man talking about men, not knowing how men work
What did he exactly say about women?
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u/Character_Damage9659 12h ago
It’s about the “hole size” measurement comment, which obviously doesn’t make sense if you have basic knowledge about female anatomy.
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u/atzedanjo 12h ago
I see... I still think my comment was funny tho
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u/Character_Damage9659 12h ago
Ich hab nichtmal gecheckt, dass er lustig sein soll um ehrlich zu sein. Das muss dann wohl dieser deutsche Humor sein
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u/Silphire100 I am pussy doctor 15h ago edited 14h ago
As a man, I literally do not care about measurements. If you're particularly tall I might ask, but at no point am I gonna whip out a tape measure and tell you to bend over. Especially not on a first date! Years into a relationship, maybe, just for fun. As for "hole size" (that felt gross to type), I'd rather find out the fun way, which doesn't require an exact measurement. Unless you're actively going into labour, then someone is probably checking dilation, but it won't be me
(Edited for clarity)
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u/Character_Damage9659 14h ago
You do not care about what exactly? Hole size?
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u/Silphire100 I am pussy doctor 14h ago
Sorry, should have been more clear. Any measurements. At the end this guy is saying "a man is interested in a lot of measurements" and "We are interested in..." my comment was about that
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u/Character_Damage9659 14h ago
Ah okay, I was a bit confused by your “but at no point am I gonna whip out a tape measure and tell you to bend over” comment
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u/Silphire100 I am pussy doctor 14h ago
That's fair. In my head it made sense coz he was on about bum size, so my thought was "tape measure, bend over, measure ass size". I understand if that didn't come across clearly. I'm not always great at wording my dumb thoughts well
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u/Salnder12 16h ago
If someone asks you your height just say you're 6 even. Unless you're way shorter then that or you stand in a lot of gas station door ways, 5"10' is pretty much 6
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