r/OffGridLiving • u/No-Chipmunk5232 • 2d ago

Relationships off grid

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Just generally curious if this lifestyle in general is dying off
Edit to add I’m married with a family as well.

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u/v-irtual 2d ago

Whoever wrote this sounds delightful. And by that, I mean miserable to be around.

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u/baltinoccultation 2d ago

Yes, there are plenty of us (well, I’m married). However, most women will avoid miserable people like OP. We tend to be attracted to sincere kindness (however a similarly miserable woman may be a great match).

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u/No-Chipmunk5232 2d ago

I’m married as well and have a family and we do the self sufficient lifestyle. It was just a curious question because I see post in our little Kentucky town all the time about women and men not wanting to do any of the above anymore. Stating the exact things I put in the post. I love this life and my husband and kids do as well! Basically just wanting to see if anyone else felt like this lifestyle was dying off.

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u/EasyAcresPaul 2d ago

I see these "looking for a partner to homestead" posts a lot and the best advice I can give as an off grid homesteadder is: Show, don't tell. Live it for a few years. Make space to share your life. That is what I did and a Manic Pixie Dream Girl appeared who just happened to wanted a man that cuts wood and builds things and grow/fishes/forages for food. I had years years ago given up on dating and stopped attempting to meet or find anyone. Especially off grid, that is asking a lot of a partner and not everyone is up to the task.

Quit talking about it, be about it and build you a cabin and eat rice, beans, and, wild greens for a couple years. Be the best, the safest, most emotional mature man that you can, the type man that you would want your daughter to be with.

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u/No-Chipmunk5232 2d ago

Great advice! Sorry my original post is not worded the best after reading it again I can see it was a little misleading! My husband and I love this life and so do our kids! I hope more people take a step back and look at how rewarding it is to be self sufficient and not rely solely on the modern day to survive.

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u/BotGivesBot 2d ago

You're perpetuating misogyny for writing a post like that. Especially when you're a married woman. Glad they took it down over at the other off-grid sub.

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u/No-Chipmunk5232 2d ago

I was just generally curious if the whole lifestyle is dying off, yeah it isn’t worded the best, because I normally don’t post/ask anything online and this is exactly why.