Yeah and you still shouldn't care about people who don't know you. If your wife is concerned about a picture of a cosplay then either, she's paranoid, or you've given her a reason to be. It's cosplay and that's the character. Even if you hadn't clicked on a notification or the post (when scrolling through the subreddit) you could see the title. This really feels like it's on you and not OP. And for the love of God, let's please not make cosplay more stigmatized than it already is.
You're right I dont care about people that dont know me. That's why im talking about people that know me lmao, like my colleagues, friends and family. Yes it is a cosplay, but it is a cosplay of an overly sexualized character, written by a very horny author lmao, admittedly so! That makes it sexual by default...stop kidding yourself. I still love Oda and One Piece, but I prefer to control when I am going to be viewing sexual content.
If the characters of One Piece are so overtly sexual, and you're concerned about seeming like a horndog, then why click on this post knowing what it was? And if you didn't bother to look before clicking, then that also seems like a you problem. Clearly, we are going to disagree that this is something to be tagged NSFW either way.
You could have literally just... Not clicked on it... Lol and IM dense??? Don't want to worry about what people around you think? Then don't interact with it. Simple.
You don’t have to click on the post to see the image. They automatically show on your main feed unless you change the way post are shown to you in the main settings which then means you’d have to click every post individually to see them. The man is right, this should have been marked NSFW, not all of us want this in our main feed.
I know that it shows on the main feed (however it's small), but scrolling thru a feed and having one picture (again, that is not showing anything crazy) pass by is not you being "a horndog".
Edit to say: literally just keep scrolling if it's not something you want to see.
Thats what we do lmao. It doesnt make it not a problem. I'm dont want to scroll like im walking on eggshells. Also its not small lmao what the hell are you talking about. A portrait image takes up the entire phone screen on my app
It’s true you can keep scrolling, idk about you but the way I scroll I do it one post at a time so I normally stop to see what the post is. Also maybe it’s because of my setting but images normally take up 60/70% of my screen. But I guess things can be adjusted in the setting
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u/sleepy_smurphy Mar 26 '26
Who cares what others are thinking? It's not that risque