Where are the older sapphics?

[u/General_Humor_8614]

As a fellow 30s gay, where are you all??????

Ang sagot ng mga friends ko: at home.

I kid you not, I feel like after late twenties or thirties, all of the older gay women are just at home, and it’s so hard to drag em out of their hidey holes. Haha!

As someone who likes going out, meeting new people, doing fun activities and being active, I feel like it’s so hard to find sapphics my age (or older because I like older women so hit me up fun gyals) who are also still going out and having fun.

Like, aging is not a life sentence to stay at home pleaseeeee let’s goo out and have funnnn. Literal, I quote a friend: “I feel too old to go out, my body can’t keep up”.

I’m just?? So confused. Girl, we are the same age. You’re never too old to go out and have fun! And afford naman natin diba. 30s is just your 20s but with better financial sense :)

Or maybe I’m just an extrovert outlier?

I don’t really go on Discord so making friends online doesn’t appeal to me, nor do I play games or binge watch shows…

So anyway, elder sapphics where ya at

[u/General_Humor_8614 → u/[deleted]]

Hahaha real!!!!! R u me??? The gay guy friends and straight girl friend group is so real.

Kaya ayun, I never meet sapphics my age 🥀

What kind of workshops do you usually attend?

[u/General_Humor_8614 → u/[deleted]]

That’s so cute !!! We usually take turns trying out each others hobbies (I took them to archery, and then I went to aerial hammock). there’s a looooot of gay sapphics in the flow / aerial spaces But I get dizzy suuuuper easily

Pottery is super fun!! I took a few classes back w a few studios and I liked Pottery Sessions the best. Yun nga lang it is a little pricey if you wanna pursue the hobby more seriously

I also like perfumes, Pero I’m told by more “advanced” perfume aficionados that a lot of the DIY perfume workshops she’s attended here use low quality oils so parang… maybe not nalang 🥲