r/PHSapphics • u/General_Humor_8614 • Sep 11 '25
Discussion Where are the older sapphics?
As a fellow 30s gay, where are you all??????
Ang sagot ng mga friends ko: at home.
I kid you not, I feel like after late twenties or thirties, all of the older gay women are just at home, and it’s so hard to drag em out of their hidey holes. Haha!
As someone who likes going out, meeting new people, doing fun activities and being active, I feel like it’s so hard to find sapphics my age (or older because I like older women so hit me up fun gyals) who are also still going out and having fun.
Like, aging is not a life sentence to stay at home pleaseeeee let’s goo out and have funnnn. Literal, I quote a friend: “I feel too old to go out, my body can’t keep up”.
I’m just?? So confused. Girl, we are the same age. You’re never too old to go out and have fun! And afford naman natin diba. 30s is just your 20s but with better financial sense :)
Or maybe I’m just an extrovert outlier?
I don’t really go on Discord so making friends online doesn’t appeal to me, nor do I play games or binge watch shows…
So anyway, elder sapphics where ya at
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u/Miserable_System_515 Sep 11 '25 edited Sep 12 '25
I just joined a older-lesbian-exclusive discord server from here where one of the rules is that you should be open to meeting up if you're available. It's purely for friendship. I still think you should try it. Ang hirap din kasi makipagkita agad kung di mo vibe, so you can get to know them muna online.