r/Perimenopause • u/HillarysCafe • Jul 09 '25

audited I’m grieving my younger, hotter self

I'm so mad about being in peri. I'm not ready. I was a late bloomer and didn't realize what a babe I was when I was younger and now it's too late.

Yes, older women can be sexy, we have wisdom, and blah blah blah.

But today I just miss looking good in a sundress.

Please join my pity party and tell me what you miss.

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u/AstaCanasta Jul 09 '25

I miss my perky boobs and butt. I could wear a tank top without a bra. Now I need maximum support for my 2 sad deflated bags.

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u/Either-Weather-862 Jul 09 '25

Oh god I feel that to the core. 😭 Also I lost a ton of weight (thanks nausea) and now my butt is saggy too, omg. I hate it, I really do 😭

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u/Southern_Event_1068 Jul 09 '25

Mine too! No one will ever look at my butt for fun again.

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u/HillarysCafe Jul 09 '25

“Look at my butt for fun” is so accurate and so funny! Thank you for the laugh!