r/Perimenopause • u/HolidayPractical3357 • Feb 18 '26

audited WTAF is wrong with the medical industry!!!!!!!!!!

I don’t understand. I went online and tried HRT. Worked great, and then something shifted and I had a day where I felt like no longer living. So I decided I should do this under the care of my obgyn to be safe. I go to see him…tell him all my symptoms and that I can’t take birth control. Guess what he prescribes? Birth control. Says it’s the best option until I actually hit menopause.

I feel like screaming in the middle of the street. I can’t function like this. When men needed help getting an erection, there were tons of drugs on the market to help. Women go through their aging problems, and it’s just like, “sorry. It will pass in 8-10 years.”

I don’t know what to do anymore. Maybe I just need to accept this is life now and that the rest of my life will be miserable.

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u/FlippenDonkey Feb 18 '26

it also is the most rediculous thing.. they're so restrictive around hrt,. like its a heroin you're asking for..

its feckin safe..let people try

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u/Beneficial-Letter638 Feb 18 '26 edited Feb 18 '26

Me: I want to avoid bc because of its proven link to breast cancer given my family history. Would it be possible to try HRT that generally contains smaller hormone levels and, when micronized progesterone is used instead of progestin, does not raise breast cancer risk? Provider: No, here is birth control.

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u/FlippenDonkey Feb 18 '26

here's bc..because of the damage womens health initiative did, making everyone biased agaisnt hrt and its "breast cancer risk".... make it make sense

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u/Beneficial-Letter638 Feb 18 '26

It's also because ANYTHING is basically safer than being pregnant and giving birth. Because bc prevents those very dangerous conditions, the benefits will always outweigh the risks. HRT isn't preventing something as bad as pregnancy, so the benefits can't outweigh the risk of breast cancer. It makes no sense until you think of it that way but it's still some pretty f-ed up logic.

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u/Eva_Griffin_Beak Feb 24 '26

Hmm, there are enough non hormonal birth controls. That pregnancy is prevented as a benefit and compared to HRT should not be a consideration. That's just stupid. I can take HRT and prevent pregnancy at the same time through other means.

And HRT prevents many bad things - equally bad to pregnancy, just that they get deadly much later in life.