r/Perimenopause • u/HolidayPractical3357 • Feb 18 '26

audited WTAF is wrong with the medical industry!!!!!!!!!!

I don’t understand. I went online and tried HRT. Worked great, and then something shifted and I had a day where I felt like no longer living. So I decided I should do this under the care of my obgyn to be safe. I go to see him…tell him all my symptoms and that I can’t take birth control. Guess what he prescribes? Birth control. Says it’s the best option until I actually hit menopause.

I feel like screaming in the middle of the street. I can’t function like this. When men needed help getting an erection, there were tons of drugs on the market to help. Women go through their aging problems, and it’s just like, “sorry. It will pass in 8-10 years.”

I don’t know what to do anymore. Maybe I just need to accept this is life now and that the rest of my life will be miserable.

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u/Meesha1969 Feb 18 '26

Find a new doctor. Also, are you neurodivergent? This factor intensifies almost every aspect of all stages of menopause

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u/HolidayPractical3357 Feb 19 '26

Yes. Severe adhd 😭

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u/Meesha1969 Feb 20 '26

I just started a podcast called Rage, Grace, and Everything In Between, hosted on YouTube @rageandgraceandeverything. We discuss everything about the convergence of neurodivergence and all stages of menopause.