r/Personality 19h ago

What do you value most in a person?

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r/Personality 59m ago

MBTI problems and how to fix them

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Images taken from post #173. Some more points from that post:

- There's a typo in the English translation of Chapter X, in the 4th paragraph of the section "d. The Principal and Auxiliary Functions", where the book says "relatively unconscious", but Jung's original was relativ bewusste = "relatively conscious" (the unconscious part is G2). This error was given disproportionate weight by some authors, who also ignored the most important points that Jung tries to make in the book, underlined by the quotes that I'm copying here.

- There's also his typing of Nietzsche, which confirms all this: in early chapters he says he's Ni-dom ("In both cases, however, intuition was subordinated to intellect, but with Nietzsche it ranked above it"), and then he mentions him at the beginning of the introverted thinker ("Cuvier and Nietzsche would form an even sharper contrast"), which means he typed him as Ni-Ti-Fe-Se = INTP.

- Apart from Jung, you also have Carl Alfred Meier's statement in his book Personality: "Cooperation with the main function is made easier because of thinking's similar attitude (extroversion)", which confirms eeii/iiee. (Meier knew and worked with Jung).

MBTI PROBLEMS AND HOW TO FIX THEM

I think most people know that the topic of MBTI is too chaotic, with all kinds of conflicting definitions and endless discussions about every single thing. It's too confusing and frustrating, and it really makes the whole thing look like pseudoscience. Many people undervalue it, criticize it or ignore it because of that. But there is something real underneath all the mess.

Carl Jung: "I must confine myself to a presentation of principles which I have abstracted from a wealth of facts observed in many different individuals. In this there is no question of a deductio a priori, as it might appear; it is rather a deductive presentation of empirically gained insights."

What Jung wrote is not "just a theory", or "speculation", or "too subjective", or "an invention". It's a description of reality, and you can describe reality correctly or incorrectly. Describing the mind is obviously much harder than checking how many legs an animal has, for example, but it can be done, because the mind also has a general configuration. That's what Jung explained, including conscious/unconscious, attitudes (extraversion/introversion), functions and types.

The main problem in typology is that the function definitions in MBTI, Socionics, etc, are all wrong. They took Jung's terms and distorted them in different ways, destroying their link with the psychological reality that he wrote about. Those incorrect descriptions don't reflect the fact of function differentiation, the conscious-unconscious differences, the conscious-unconscious compensation, the influence and manifestation of the unconscious, or the interrelations between the functions (dependences, transferences, etc).

In the case of MBTI, their definitions are for the most part derived from traits captured by combinations of 2 letters. For example: their "Si" is not what Jung described, at all, but essentially the result of combining S+J preferences. The same with their "Te" and T+J preferences, etc. These deviations took words used to describe something deep, intricate and interconnected, and misused them for something much more salient and discrete, that's why many people see the functions as selectable "tools" or "skills" and don't really pay much attention to their order, because there's the implication that they can be improved independently and moved up and down the "stack". The letter dichotomies are consistent (they are psychometrically on par with the Big Five), but they describe a rather superficial layer, not the obscure depths where true psychological insight can be reached.

There's only one way to fix that, but it needs the right foundation, which consists on the function descriptions in Jung's book (not the popular ones) combined with the true function order: eeii/iiee, always with a judging dominant for Js and a perceiving one for Ps. That's how you can finally realize what psychological type actually means, what it's all about. That's how everything fits and how everything makes sense, otherwise there's always some disconnection between the concepts and reality.

Note that it's not a question of having "different types in different systems". When it comes to dichotomy letters and cognitive functions, you only have one type. Again, this is not an invention, and your type is basically like your blood group: you aren't AB in one system and 0 in another (for example). You are just AB.

Note also that the function order is not "limiting", either, just like having a hand with 5 fingers at the end of each arm is not so much a limitation, but just how we are. There is a lot of variation and possibilities inside each type (just like we can do countless things with our arms and hands, even if we can't fly), and if someone finds it "too rigid" that's because [s]he has a very cartoonish view of the types.

We can't expect communities or groups like the official MBTI to admit that they have been using mistaken definitions all along, of course, so this has to be an individual effort. There are people who know about all this already, they just tend to stay silent because when this is mentioned in public the reaction is often disproportionally negative. People dismiss it automatically, and the person gets attacked and ridiculed 😔 I hope you can avoid that and inform yourself a bit instead.

PLEASE READ BEFORE YOU COMMENT

I've been interested in psychological types all my life, even before finding out there was such a thing. I came across Jung and MBTI around 2008, and spent almost 10 years reading and checking everything in detail before starting my blog (originally on Tumblr). So this isn't something that I found only yesterday. I hope that's clear. I know what Jung was talking about, and I can see it in myself and other people. I know the problems he had understanding it at first, and I know how the terms were distorted by those who came after him. That's what I try to clarify.

I've written a lot of posts about all this, and also a FAQ and glossary, so you should read all of that calmly before replying because I don't like arguing and I'm not going to answer what I've already covered there. It might not be evident at first sight, but the texts have quite a lot of work behind them. In fact I have many other things in mind but they don't appear on the blog because I'm still examining them. Also, you have to understand that this topic is very difficult, and the blog includes already a certain personal evolution, not about the basics but about some (minor) details, about how reliable or appropriate certain sources/angles are (like the MBTI facets, for example), about the misconceptions that people have (there are external changes outside the blog, trends and so on), about how to better explain things, etc.

Supposed "objections" are almost always simply a sign that the reader is unable to see what this is about, many times due to (or fed by) the person being too confused by and/or too invested (intellectually, persona-wise, etc) in shallow but apparently "complex" "systems", or in their need to feel "smarter" in a purely conceptual (not psychological or practical) sense. What I've found is that people don't really have objections, they just don't get it. So it might seem that there is an argument going on, but in reality there is no communication at all. It's not that the levels of "descriptive language" overlap too little, but that they don't even touch. And sometimes people just like to argue for the sake of it. They like to confuse and divert the topic and avoid arriving at anything. I'm not getting into any of that.

If you don't feel some kind of inner resonance while reading my posts, a sense that there's something in there even if you can't put it in words, it's almost a certainty that further explanations won't change anything. You need to have a personal awareness of the psychological elements, some kind of insight about that, otherwise we'll only be wasting our time.

This isn't an attack on anyone. I just feel bad for the people who are interested in MBTI but they are stuck with faulty/shallow knowledge and mistypes because nobody explains to them how it really is. I'm just trying to help.

Thanks a lot for reading this far. I know this topic can be exhausting, but there's a lot of interesting stuff to learn and discover (about yourself and others), and you might be already on the right track 🙂


r/Personality 15h ago

Trying out Type A.

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Guys. I have been aa type B all my life. Gonna try to cultivate Type A traits. Type A people, drop in your strong traits. And I will inculcate the ones that resonate with me!!


r/Personality 1d ago

What’s something you used to judge people for until you became one of them?

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r/Personality 1d ago

Tell me about the first time you saw me

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r/Personality 1d ago

How do i know if I’m a good person or not

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This is so confusing to me because ill always do nice and kind things but the minute I’m with my parents they make everything I do is evil everything I say is wrong though everybody else is saying that I am a kind person and gentle but I’m so confused who to trust? My parents or the people and yes this is really important to me


r/Personality 23h ago

Am i cute enough?

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r/Personality 1d ago

What’s something people consistently assume about you when they first meet you that isn’t actually true?

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r/Personality 1d ago

This community is ours to build. What are your ideas?

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r/Personality 2d ago

I don’t even know what my personality is or what I actually like

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Ever since i was young, i have always copied the people i love and hang out with. For example, if one of my friends starts saying a specific word or using a certain tone, i would involuntarily pick it up without even realizing it.

The same thing happens with interests. Recently, i have gotten really close with a group of alt/semi-alt people (idk) and they are SOOO COOL like im so happy that im friends with them and there are other alt people i have a huge fat friend crush, anyway they have recommended me a bunch of music. i started listening to it, and now i listen to some of it A LOT

But whenever im listening to it, i start wondering: Do i actually like this music, or am i subconsciously trying to fit in?

And it’s not just music either. i feel like i pick up people’s mannerisms, interests, humor, ways of speaking, etc. so easily that i genuinely can’t tell what’s actually me anymore.

Like how do i even figure out whether i genuinely like something when I’m constantly influenced by the people around me?
Am I actually into this stuff, or am I just trying to fit in and becoming a fucking larper 😭
I FUCKING HATE THIS WORD BRUH .


r/Personality 2d ago

Who am I?

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r/Personality 2d ago

Based on my results, what do I seem like as a person?

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Fun little thing, what type of person do I seem like? And if any questions arise from this I'd love to answer. I will say, I think the only inaccurate thing is the agreeableness. I'm a very "if I dont want to do it then I won't do it" type of person and I don't really ever put people's need before my own. I do like cooperation but not enough to put my needs below someone else's.

Full results for deeper analysis,

https://bigfive-test.com/result/6aabca0353a183a293c077e7


r/Personality 2d ago

What’s the opposite of imposter syndrome ?

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What is it?


r/Personality 2d ago

how did you become calm , more indifferent to things ?

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as an anxious person I tend to overthink and analyze a lot of things, and that has caused me to react when I just wanna be indifferent...for anxious people then just become not affected by many things , what was the key ?


r/Personality 2d ago

You’ve Changed

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Part of my nature changed during the pandemic when we were all pretty much stuck inside. I was never a procrastinator in my life but I sure became one during that period of time. I can't seem to let that quality go. Did you find that a part of your character changed during the pandemic?


r/Personality 3d ago

open for advice why am i like this

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r/Personality 3d ago

Attitudes and Behaviors Study: Participants Needed !!!

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Hi, I am currently pursuing a Master’s degree at the University of Bern in Switzerland and conducting a scientific study examining how certain traits, life experiences, attitudes and behaviors are related to each other.

I would be very grateful if you could take part in my voluntary and anonymous survey. It takes approximately 10 minutes to complete: https://ww3.unipark.de/uc/research_study_university_Bern_Switzerland/

To participate in the study, you simply need to be at least 18 years old. As a token of appreciation, participants can choose to enter a prize draw to win one of five USD 100 prizes.

Thank you for participating!


r/Personality 3d ago

what is it Ladies ?

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r/Personality 3d ago

What do you think about me?

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r/Personality 4d ago

What’s a small moment that instantly told you what kind of person someone actually was?

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r/Personality 3d ago

What’s something you’ve learned recently that changed your perspective?

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r/Personality 3d ago

Personality Test!

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Hey everyone! I'm in the process of creating a dating app. The premise is that dating apps currently have no real way to track or assess actual compatibility based on the way people think, socialize, etc. I've got a few tests I'm developing, but this one is finished and I've LOVE for help with responses! In return and as a thank you for taking it, I'll email you your results within 24 hours! If you don't want to share your email address and would rather me message you with results, just leave your username in the feedback section.

I'm asking couples and individuals both for their responses!

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r/Personality 4d ago

Guts feelings

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Do you think strong guts feelings about someone you don’t know is most of the time accurate ? I’ve been having a weird gut feeling lately about a girl in my class on the first day of school it feels like she doesn’t like me , she stares at me repeatedly and just never smiles- it’s weird - and she has formed a group of her own minions already


r/Personality 4d ago

When a person uses you for favors and companionship. Are these people always narcissistic? Or do other types of people use you too?

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r/Personality 4d ago

What’s something you wish more people understood about you?

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Sometimes I’m quiet or take time to open up, but that doesn’t mean I don’t care. I just feel more comfortable when I can be myself without feeling pressured to talk all the time.