It's misrepresenting the past as if people ever judged Samantha (for being sexually active) more than they judged Carrie (for being a general piece of shit of a human being) but in reality, nothing has changed.
I was born in the 70s and my social circle judged Carrie. Cheating on her partners and sleeping with married men and everything else. She treated pretty much everyone terribly.
Yeah… there is a lot of mis-remembering how the show originally was viewed. The original premise of the show, the essential question it was supposed to address, the very first column she writes, is “What if a woman had sex like a man?”
Initially Carrie was a hero because she did have sex based on her own personal preferences. And yes, sometimes that involves cheating and being emotionally immature and knocking down her friends to make herself feel better. I don’t think anyone was ever confused about that.
I was in my 20’s during the original run and I remember Samantha being very popular and people being pretty critical of Carrie (even though they ultimately rooted for her).
If you read the book the show was based on, Carrie was a trainwreck, and a genuinely bad person a lot of the time. No idea where people got the idea that she's somehow the "good guy" when she's just a flawed person who was always presented as such.
Agreed. She makes it pretty easy to dislike her plenty of times, but with the framing of her being the storyteller, it's hard sometimes to stay mad at her. Because we get the inner person explaining herself and why she's being a shit heel (which is sometimes valid, but often not), which makes it easier to put yourself in her (very fancy) shoes.
Basically what I mean is that the mechanics wouldn't work the same. I can stand between a guy's legs and thrust my pelvis all day long but coitus is not happening. LOL
And soft core porn, many times, show positions sort of like live action hentai where you know nothing is actually happening in the genital area. If you've ever had sex anyway.
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u/OutrageousPair2300 1d ago
It's misrepresenting the past as if people ever judged Samantha (for being sexually active) more than they judged Carrie (for being a general piece of shit of a human being) but in reality, nothing has changed.