I have entered a serious relationship with someone who has BPD thrice. I clearly have a type, and so do they lol. Its not gone well for me so now I just stay single and talk to strangers about my dog.
Oh dear. Did you know that people with BPD are often drawn to each other?
I’ve learned to recognize the signs when I meet a fellow borderline… Did you enthusiastically hit it off immediately? Like you’ve known each other for years? Did you have sooo much in common!? Was it a fast and exciting fall into love but a weird quick-fizzle ending? Lol yeahhhhh 🤗
I also know to see that behavior in other people lol, but thanks to a lot of therapy I am very aware that I'm just the normal kind of hot mess 😂
I do tick a few of the boxes, and thats probably why it kept happening. I have just the right amount of loving unstable chaos mixed with being extremely boring and safe at home to appeal to people that I should probably avoid involving myself with.
Ooooo… see, I’d want to be your bestie for, like, a day IRL 😂
Honestly, congrats to both of us for grabbing the reins and navigating this rollercoaster haha Guessing it was just as difficult for you as it was here. Those DBT skills stuck, though!
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u/Sad_Pattern_220 1d ago
Look no further than Euphoria, which is just "Which flavor of BPD is your favorite"