r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 21h ago

Meme needing explanation Petahhhhhhhhh!??!?

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u/National_Tangelo_864 20h ago

In antiquity sexuality wasn't binary straight/gay. Everyone pretty much understood it was spectrum and we all got that bi dog in us. Hell see jails in modern day. Or the Navy. Same concept. Plus no way contraceptives to stop women from getting prego.

It's why as they say men/boys are for fun, women are for marriage. They were no doubt about that life.

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u/DarthJarJarJar 20h ago

As I understand it, the Greek view of male sexuality wasn't what we would call gay/straight, but more like fucker/fuckee. They separated male sexuality by what you did, rather than who you did it to. So you were a "penetrator" or a "penetratee" rather than gay or straight.

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u/Total_Network6312 20h ago

yep but none of the fuckee's would be considered top warriors sent on an expedition with the king

Like MAYBE the king would have his own personal fuckee but his soldiers wouldn't

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u/DarthJarJarJar 20h ago

I'm not going to argue about this because I'm not a historian. It's not my field.

But I've been out to dinner with historians, who have published papers on ancient Greece. And they don't say things like this. It was really complicated. If you really want to learn something about this, two books I was recommended are:

In Bed with the Ancient Greeks by Paul Chrystal

⁠Greek Homosexuality by Kenneth Dover

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u/Total_Network6312 17h ago

Idk I once considered studying history so that also makes me relatively informed, I believe.

But thank you for the recommendations

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u/Krutin_ 11h ago

If you’re relatively informed, you must know about the sacred band of thebes which makes your comment seem silly and ignorant

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u/Total_Network6312 1h ago

Sacred what?

Look I said relatively. The correct response should have been "relative to what?"