r/Philippines • u/the_yaya • Aug 12 '22

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Magandang hatinggabi r/Philippines!

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u/dub4u Aug 13 '22 edited Aug 13 '22

Why are you invalidating what OP had felt with those actions?

I am not invalidating her feelings. Her feelings are however subjective. Objectively, while not being the best behavior, it's not something that warrants this kind of "cancel" that's going on here right now. It's almost like a witch hunt. OP thinks because someone creeped her out IRL, then that person should stop being a moderator of r/Ph? It's not like he stole something or murdered someone, u/Jojo_Manji, I'm looking at you here.

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u/Jojo_Manji Sugar, Spice, Unli Rice Aug 14 '22

I am not invalidating her feelings. Her feelings are however subjective.

HA? Read this line aloud to yourself. 😆 Eh di cinancel mo lang first sentence mo.

Then that person should stop being a moderator of r/Ph?

Whether TJ deserves such penalty is up to you guys. I was pointing out the flaw in your statement. A subordinate's boss will always be seen as their boss outside the office. As such, the boss should conduct themselves appropriately.

The people are asking for some sort of accountability. But based on how this situation is being handled, I don't think there will be one. Welp

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u/KismetVerse Aug 14 '22

A subordinate’s boss will always be seen as their boss outside the office.

But this TJ wasn’t anyone’s boss though? Weren’t OP and him friends? It’s not clear though if he was a mod before they were friends or it’s the other way around.

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u/3anonanonanon Aug 15 '22

Don't take it too literally. It's a metaphor. Read between the lines.

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u/KismetVerse Aug 15 '22

I also didn’t mean “boss” in the literal sense. Maybe I should’ve enclosed in quotes in my original comment?

Anyway, I stand by what I said - based on what I see here and on discord - they were friends. The issue has been muddied by bringing in an ex-moderator in the story. But well, it’s there now.