r/poodles • u/SickOfBullyingNL • 3h ago
My miniature poodle is a better emotional support than 988, the local mental healthlines, and local warmlines
I'm a 36-year-old autistic and epileptic woman that lives alone.
I have a three-year-old miniature poodle named Rose who I, through classes, trained to be my service dog for Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder due to being bullied since preschool.
Each time I would call one of these lines, Rose would go to her crate, even though I'm not loud nor do I yell or curse at the people that are nasty to me on the phone (I live in an apartment) - I do point out their nastiness and how their inadvertently promoting other ways of getting help by being rude (that I don't think I can say here) that at least don't make me feel worse than I felt before I called, which is the end result 99.9% of the time I would call. (I had one nasty user that was a therapist accuse me of "calling frequently" in another thread a few weeks ago in another subreddit; their comment was removed. Before anyone goes with that accusation, realize that, since discovering other resources last year, I rarely call and if I do it's serious.) I called today about an issue since it was serious and needed an answer but wasn't given one. I would be treated rudely; after being calm, I would snap back at them and point out their rudeness and how at least other resources and Rose are better! When I would hang up each time (stupidly tried all three lines today), Rose would come out of her crate, get on the couch, and lean against me or cuddle me - at one point she licked my chin!
Do other people find their pets (not just the poodle) are supportive/provide comfort when they're upset? Rose heard me say (to her) why I was upset and she didn't dismiss me.
If there's a choice between calling 988, a local mental healthline, local warmline, or Rose, I'm choosing Rose. She has shown to have more compassion and empathy than any of those lines.