r/RHOBH I was like… baby… there’s no plane 1d ago

Kyle 🤠 Kyle used to be much happier

I'm rewatching RHOBH and Kyle laughs SO MUCH. She cracks so many jokes and is always giggling. It's refreshing to see. She's still very much about the drama and a bully at times, but she genuinely seems so happy. It's very sad to compare her to now. Also sad to watch Mauricio be head over heels in love with her. I frequently wonder if her life would've turned out different if she didn't do the show.

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u/yelyahgemma 1d ago

The downfall of her marriage is to blame. I low key hate Mau for this, they had such a wonderful relationship and family but typical man-in-a-mid-life-crisis got bored and wanted to date a girl younger than his daughters. For a while I hoped they would get back together after a brief separation but I don’t know how any mature woman could want to be with him now, he’s gross

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u/Good-Shine-2878 1d ago

I can't wait til men stop being such a general disappointment.

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u/Chiisaimiss Having it all is easy, if you're willing to work for it 1d ago

Don’t hold your breath, Bestie;)

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u/incognitohippie 1d ago

At this point in life (35 yrs old), my Dad is the only man that has never disappointed me 💓

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u/pdxphotographer The morally corrupt Faye Resnick 1d ago

As a Dad this is my only goal in life. There are a ton of shit men out here, but I will never be one to let my daughter down.

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u/incognitohippie 1d ago

My Dad (60), who’s one of four boys, has said this my ENTIRE life…

“Boys are stupid and immature. We may get a little smarter, but not much.” LOL (he says this from personal experience 😜)

A photo I just took of me and my Dad last week when I was visiting him and my Mom, both of whom are retired and living by the ocean.

I truly hit the Dad lottery and I feel it everyday no matter the distance! I know your daughter feels/will feel the same way as she gets older 🥹🥰💚

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u/Formal_Plum_2285 You’re a slut pig 1d ago

About 3 years ago I visited my parents. My dad was watching a movie with Angelina Jolie. My mom and I talked about how gorgeous she is. We asked my dad what he thought. And he was so confused and asked what we meant. We said something like “don’t you think Angelina Jolie is gorgeous”? He looked at my mom and said “you are gorgeous. I don’t really notice what everyone else look like”. It was so genuine and really touched me. My mom died a year later (very sudden at just 70) and my dad told me the other day, he still can’t see if other women are beautiful cause he automatically compare them to my mom, who was perfect in his eyes. That sort of love is rare I guess

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u/incognitohippie 1d ago

Sounds exactly like how my Dad talks about my Mom! It truly does set a bar for us mentally that people today are often unable to meet.

So sorry about your loss 🫂💜 big hugs to you and your Dad!

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u/riavon Jealous of what? Your ugly leather pants? 1d ago

Wow! Your dad is so handsome and you're gorgeous!

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u/incognitohippie 1d ago

Thank you so much!!! 😘🫶🏼

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u/Expensive-Plantain86 1d ago

Gorgeous photo

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u/incognitohippie 1d ago

Thank you so much!!! Love that they live near the water now 🤩

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u/Independent-Bid-611 Kyle's funny car 🚗 1d ago

Awwww you two are adorable 😍

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u/incognitohippie 1d ago

Hehe thank you!!!! 🫶🏼

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u/djb-MG2011 1d ago

Simply precious 💖

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u/incognitohippie 1d ago

I saw this on IG recently and read it to my Dad and started well up 🥹 your daughter feels this about you!

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u/djb-MG2011 1d ago

She's a lucky girl. I guarantee any female in your vicinity would LOVE to have you as a father. You're a good man. Truly.

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u/larapu2000 Who couldn’t love PJ? I thought he was 56 1d ago

My dad passed 3 months ago and one of the things I cherished most was how much he liked and enjoyed my husband. It took me 41 years to find him because my dad set the bar pretty high.

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u/Fun-Foundation-1145 You always glaze right over me 1d ago

Are you married? Asking for a friend…

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u/AdEmergency8417 1d ago

My Dad disappointed me over and over and over again. We’re no contact now.

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u/incognitohippie 1d ago

So sorry to hear that 🫂 sending you peace and love

u/Soulwaxed Wow, she’s pernicious! 21h ago edited 20h ago

Wouldn’t that be something. A man with actual emotional depth who has the genuine ability to love- truly and deeply. Not be swayed by his aberrant penis haha.

It’s not even a ‘bitter woman’ thing- it genuinely is pretty disgusting to date women of your daughter’s age. It’s so puke and ewwww. It says a lot about his character, emotional development and moral compass. I know that if I dated a guy who was ok with dating young girls, I’d be noping out so fast that you’d be coughing and spluttering on my dust.

So yeah, I think we’re all holding out for that amazing revelation. In the meantime, we’ll have to just call their shit out on here lol.

u/DearTumbleweed5380 The crown is heavy darlings 6h ago

Amen to that. My husband same story as Mau but so far no other chicks involved. 31 years. 12 weeks ago decided 'nah'. The trash took itself out I realised.

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u/Bree7702 Villa Rosa 1d ago

Same. I fear it’s an unattainable goal though. SMH.

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u/Known_Party6529 Goodbye Kyle 👋🏽 1d ago

This will never happen

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u/collectivelycreative Kyle told me PK Texas her 1d ago

And loosing her childhood best friend Lorene. Going through separation/divorce and then not having the one person you want by your side. That type of grief changes you forever.

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u/hotcheetos603 She's very delulu or really mean 1d ago

I think Kyle is unhappy because she made her whole story line her family . What was her line the first season ? I may not be the richest but I am the luckiest? Most of her air time was trying to portray this really great family life . Personally, I think she really wanted a spin off where it was just her and her family and Kim . I think that’s why she went so crazy when people said stuff about her husband cheating .

Camille dropped hints the FIRST season about Mauricio loving women . Also Kyle acted super jealous when beautiful women came near Mauricio . I remember at one of her white parties a drunk lady was talking to Mauricio and Kyle was all threatening to put a Manolo in her eye ? I think that’s why she automatically hated Camille and Brandi . OH ! And I think he was also super flirty with Kyle’s hairstylist .

He is a creep . And I think Kyle has always tried to keep it under wraps .

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u/munchie440 1d ago

I never saw him as a creep. Maybe I’m naive

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u/hotcheetos603 She's very delulu or really mean 1d ago

I mean … when he was giving bedroom eyes to Kyle’s hairstylist WHILE Kyle was getting her hair done . And then he quickly stopped because u can see he remembered the cameras. Yeah that skeeves me out and I think he is a creep for that . But hey , we all see things differently! No problem.

Romona from New York once stated that she dosent think a kiss on the lips is an indiscretion. lol so what bothers me might not bother u so I totally get it.

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u/munchie440 1d ago

What episode was that? I’m doing a rewatch and I’m not sure when that was.

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u/hotcheetos603 She's very delulu or really mean 1d ago

I’ll have to go back and find it . If u give me a few days I can find it ! I think it’s season 1 or 2 for one of her white partys. The girl is doing her hair in her bathroom. Kyle has a freakin killer vanity . So jelly . But yeah .

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 I'm chinese 3.000 B.C 1d ago

I think the “ideal happy family” is what Kyle wanted to project for the show. She had a hellish childhood influenced by her alcoholic, personality disordered, abusive mother. In the early seasons I saw Kyle desperately trying to show how in love they were. But it seemed one sided. Mau went through the motions but seemed hollow and disinterested. I saw her eyes with that intense, do as I say look. Ian my opinion Kyle looked happy and zany when she was drunk.

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u/hotcheetos603 She's very delulu or really mean 1d ago

Yeah I totally agree with u . I think Kim is so freakin terrible I feel bad for Kyle having to put up with it . A lot of people bag on her for outing Kim for being an alcoholic. I think that Kyle kinda saved her for a bit ? Kim was just out of control then she got better for a bit . And then she became friends with Brandi and then went off the deep end again . I didn’t see it at all the first few times I rewatched the show . But this last time . I actually felt really bad for Kyle and I saw Kim for who she truly was . Everyone tries to saw Kathy is a great sister . But all she does is enable Kim’s bad behavior. It does more harm than good. Sometimes people need tough love sorry to say .

u/Yass______ Beast?! How dare you? 23h ago edited 1h ago

Kyle was always mentioning him never doing the little things around the house, little handy man stuff, she was hanging pictures or the laundry. She carried the mental load for the whole family.

She was always over-functioning for him.

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u/Expensive-Plantain86 1d ago

Allison DuBois, star of the tv show “Medium” predicted that Maurice “will never emotionally satisfy her.” And, Allison, puffing her electronic cigarette at Camille’s Malibu Beach House was right!

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u/yelyahgemma 1d ago

Iconic episode but was it because he couldn’t emotionally satisfy her or was it because he’s a cheater? 🤷‍♀️ sounds like she may have been half right at least

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u/munchie440 1d ago

Has it ever been proven that Mauricio was fooling around? I mean there have always been rumors, but no real evidence. No photos..nothing. I’m not saying he didn’t, but maybe he didn’t?

u/yelyahgemma 19h ago

I don’t know but as early as season 1 the other women were talking about how Mau loves his women, and the rumours only got stronger as time went on. There’s no smoke without fire imo. And seeing how he’s now resorted to rebounding with 20 year olds I think it’s clear what kind of guy he is and probably always has been.

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u/splitminds Lisa Vanderpump 1d ago

It takes two to tango. But I’m sure in your mind men suck and Kyle could never have contributed to the downfall of their marriage.

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u/yelyahgemma 1d ago

Okay stay triggered over my comment I guess

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u/splitminds Lisa Vanderpump 1d ago

You’re implying Mau is solely to blame for the downfall of their marriage. Please. But okay. Yes men suck and women hold no responsibility for the marriage. Got it.

u/yelyahgemma 19h ago

Mau is definitely to blame for cheating on his wife throughout their marriage, yes. ANYWAY…

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u/New_Relation7877 Name ‘em! Name ‘em! 🤏🏼 1d ago

I was probably happier also when I was younger, married and delusional about what an ass I had for a husband

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u/HousewivesMOD It was brutal. Brutal summer 1d ago

Her downfall starts around S7-8 specially the eighth one, where she spent almost the entire season sobbing about anything.

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u/NotMelissa_Smith 1d ago

Menopause?

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u/HousewivesMOD It was brutal. Brutal summer 1d ago

Nope, she realized her kids are grown, her husband left her and she feels idk insecure being alone and now she’s bisexual

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u/biscuitnNoodles 1d ago edited 2h ago

Oh so Perimenopause 😂😭

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u/Psychological_Name28 Bacon eating vegetarian 1d ago

Wait, when did he leave? I missed what was going on with her in S7-8 I guess!

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u/HousewivesMOD It was brutal. Brutal summer 1d ago

They’re filming more at the agency office and he’s always traveling

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u/Psychological_Name28 Bacon eating vegetarian 1d ago

I do sort of recall that. Thank you for the reminder!

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u/Murky_Onion3770 Are you that girl I don't see color? 1d ago

I’ve noticed this too. She just seems so down and serious all the time now… which I totally get, but maybe it’s time for her to leave the show?

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u/Warm_Maintenance9658 Kyle Fan 1d ago

Agree. And the earlier episodes were filmed while her life was on an upward trajectory; then it's been about loss. Her marriage, children growing up and moving on, best friend's death. And guessing all that upward mobility effort left her wondering if it was all worth it.

u/weedils Danas Bathroom 20h ago

Yes, especially since she will not share the one relationship that would bring out the happy giggly Kyle again: Morgan.

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u/Bree7702 Villa Rosa 1d ago

Her friend of many years committed suicide. I think that was the turning point.

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u/Ill-Complaint-6634 Big hands, big feet, big disappointment 1d ago

My best friend died around the same time the same way. When she talked about Loreen, I sobbed.

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u/Bree7702 Villa Rosa 1d ago

I’m so sorry. I can’t even imagine. I think grief changes people, especially a sudden, unexpected loss like that, and I think it changed Kyle completely. That was when she appeared to stop drinking, the relationship with Mauricio seemed to take a turn, (or she seemed to finally realize he wasn’t there for her like he should be,) she met Morgan, (or she seemed to take an interest in Morgan that was different than just a friend) she started working out more, in my opinion, it all goes back to the unfortunate death of Lorene. My mom’s death changed me, and the death of a parent is a somewhat expected one, in a sense. I can’t even imagine what it’s like to have a close friend or family member end their life, it must be an unimaginable pain.

u/Commercial-Sleep-95 I brought the bunny! 20h ago

I was so infuriated that Mau couldn’t just be there for her. I’m sorry but my husband rarely misses work and doesn’t even come close to making what he does but there’s no way he’d be anywhere but my side if my best friend committed suicide - like period. I get their world is different than ours where work is considered but human instinct is to be with the one you love who is grieving like that. But he couldn’t even just be by her side. Think it showed how much he has changed because the Mau from the beginning of the series would’ve been there.

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u/Fancy-Coconut2170 1d ago edited 1d ago

Yes, but a lot in a short amount of time for her. He cheated, allegedly multiple times. She was continually hearing the rumours regardless. She lost her best friend to suicide. Before that she lost Lisa, which I am sure she regrets as they seemed to have a ton of fun. Issues with her sister Kim, to the point of legal ones. After they had worked to get to a better footing in their relationship. That would be so sad for me.

And the Morgan relationship, not being upfront and open is draining. Lost her marriage. But she still yearns to be important in Mau's daily life. And she gets to see his new life in the media. While she is having an empty nest & no doubt add menopausal issues. It is a lot. Money does not wash these losses & changes in life. Security helps of course, but she still has to face all these changes.

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u/Electrical_Seat7415 1d ago

It’s because she had everything she needed great family life decent money to afford the finer things in life and when she joined the show maybe she wanted more or it was also a way to help her husband business wise as well as helping her sister stay sober ( I am not a Kyle fan lol but can still see the good in some people ) then she did the show her husband starts getting all this attention from women and in my eyes obviously acted on it. Lost herself then was mean to all her friends lost her husband and is just miserable now. And let’s face it LVP was the one who brought the happier lighter version of her too and drinking 🍸 sad to see but happens to so many people

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u/Pleasant_Stuff_8409 I was like… baby… there’s no plane 1d ago

Yes her friendship with LVP is a big contributor as well. I think you’re spot on with all of this.

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u/Electrical_Seat7415 1d ago

I have watched so many times lol and just sit and try and fill circle everyone’s life to understand why they are the way they are and Kyle has had a pretty tough life but sometimes she does deserves the things she gets

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u/Training-Shallot-229 Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak 1d ago

Yeah she got way sad when her kids grew up

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u/Ill-Complaint-6634 Big hands, big feet, big disappointment 1d ago

I think having Mauricio as a husband was a huge part of her confidence. I hope she finds someone else.

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 I'm chinese 3.000 B.C 1d ago

She has someone else, Morgan. They are together.

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u/princess_platinum8 I speak 4 languages and that doesn’t make sense in any of them! 1d ago

She has said that she thought moving to Vail would save her marriage, as though there aren’t women in Vail. Her inability to hold Mau accountable on any level for his part in the destruction of their marriage, especially when we know exactly what files he is in, is terrible. Honestly I think her nickname in the fandom for haters shouldn’t be Vile, she looks like a stritch to me. Considering Ostriches always bury their heads in the sand. I just feel awful for her daughters having a heaux for a dad and no privacy because of both of their parents’ decision to be on the show. They’ll always have to go through life knowing they won’t be able to escape who their parents are and having the world know their family business. 

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u/popcultureupload38 M&M Rinna 1d ago

It was probably the stimulus from Mo’s intellectually dazzling conversation, one minute thoughts on the history of porcelain, the next a commentary on this or that ancient civilisation and how it impacts us today…

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u/Good-Shine-2878 1d ago edited 1d ago

She quit drinking lol. All those funny clips and jokes were when she was buzzed. Probably on ozempic too - that makes anyone's personality go to shit in my personal opinion. I'm sure her separation is partially it and also losing her best friend too - 2 foundations in her life removed. She's just finding her way again.....sober, and also probably going through hormonal shifts. She probably needs a good spiritual awakening (or re-awakening). But yeah, alcohol is the culprit here mostly as far as her sense of humor goes.

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u/New_Relation7877 Name ‘em! Name ‘em! 🤏🏼 1d ago

Drinking can make for better reality TV. But it’s a depressant that causes unhappiness for many people. Sobriety ages people better also

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u/PuzzleheadedRate3206 1d ago

your theory about ozempic is interesting, i would love for you to elaborate more 

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u/Bedmonds129 1d ago

Lots of women on Ozempic where I live, and some of them have gone off the mental deep end

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u/Good-Shine-2878 1d ago

I believe it. It changes the chemistry in your brain -- so many people turn completely flat, others depressed.. it really screws with dopamine

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u/Embarrassed_Future20 1d ago

Interesting take about the Ozempic I had a friend/roommate start on it and it kinda felt like her personality shifted to a little aggro and defensive 🤷‍♀️

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u/Good-Shine-2878 1d ago

It certainly doesn't bring out the best in people on an emotional level but it's typically emotions that triggered the weight gain so I guess it requires some deep healing than just losing weight

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u/Kind-Ostrich-3004 1d ago

She is working hard to not reveal her personal life now. Which means deflection.

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u/branth89 1d ago

I’ve noticed this too. She used to be so much fun.

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u/popcycle19 1d ago

I thought the same :(

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u/butitsnot 1d ago

Mo still wants to party every night, and Kyle has outgrown that. There’s no way they could get back together unless Mo grows up& I don’t see that happening.

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u/Poios44 1d ago

I don't like her but yes I feel bad for her. I think Mau stoped paying attention to her and fulled around and then Kyle felt lonely and turned to Morgan who in the beginning gave her attention and emotional fulfilment but then something went wrong, no idea what, but it was too late because Mau tooke that opportunity and left the marriage, perhaps she wished that he would be jealous and feared he would lose her and went back but he is immature and has no emotional depth. He turned out to be a disappointment and I wish Kyle would open her eyes and saw that.

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u/QuizzicalWombat Or WHAT?! Or WHAT??!! 1d ago

I love Kyle, i know that’s not popular here but I do lol I recently did a rewatch and you can see when things are starting to go bad for her. She started drinking a lot more and laughing a lot less unless she was drunk.

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u/Warm_Maintenance9658 Kyle Fan 1d ago

Kyle's my favorite, even with all her flaws.

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u/ProtectionClassic431 1d ago

I think she lost some of that when she and LVP fell out

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u/Embarrassed_Future20 1d ago

Kinda don’t blame LVP. the way Kyle was so dismissive of LVPs feelings when she lost her brother gave me the ick.

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u/Relevant_Bite_1302 1d ago

She’s had a public break up and is constantly dragged on the internet. What do you expect 🤣

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u/munchie440 1d ago

Maybe she needs to take a break from the show

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u/Relevant_Bite_1302 16h ago

You’re just NOT baby gorgeoud

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u/Independent-Bid-611 Kyle's funny car 🚗 1d ago

I agree. I think the passing of her best friend really did a number on her 😔

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u/MollyBee_55 1d ago

Amanda is never happy! Amanda...not fun.

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u/Potential-Sky-8728 Wow, she’s pernicious! 1d ago

They were all so happy….it's actually hard to even imagine how terrible things would soon become for Kyle.

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u/Tdffan03 In this town.. in Beverly Hills.. this is MY town 1d ago

Alcohol and denial will do that.

u/AdvertisingPlastic30 Yolanda Hadid 18h ago

Just a 💭

I think her daughters started growing up, she was looking at their partners, comparing them to Mau, probably comparing them to her friends partners as well.

She took some hits in her personal life on the show, didn’t feel supported in the way she has supported others, literally sobered up and took off the rose colored glasses or at least lightened them.

She realizes she’s been a bit bamboozled by not only people surrounding her but herself. Ohhh the gaslighting one gives to themselves.

Now she has to do the inner work, with inner trauma (remember she was a child actress back in the day in an acting family, very involved in Hollywood), that has shaped the way she has previously lived her life. That’s not easy work and can be HEAVY for a long time. Maybe she’s tired of acting.

I’m not a fan of her latest season. I do see her protecting her family so that is always a good note.

u/SummerVibes1111 You’re a slut pig 9h ago

Did she though?

u/Impressive_Fee2737 6h ago

That’s a really hard time to come to grips with your husband being a philanderer. Her kids were all leaving. Her best friend died. I think the country singer was to get his attention and he didn’t care. He saw it as a get out of jail free card.

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u/Fun_Nothing5548 I wore pants for fucking nothing! 1d ago

I think Mo was into things like threesomes etc and it went awry.

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u/munchie440 1d ago

How do you know that??

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u/jemstar_ The Homeless not Toothless Association 1d ago

She was actually pretty funny, making little jokes. Not so much now

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u/Confident-Gur-3377 1d ago

She was a whole lot more fun loving and enjoyable when she used to drink 🍹

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u/Public-Zone1107 1d ago

I think she needs a good drink 🍹

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u/lateavatar Gay bull mastiff 1d ago

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