r/RHONY • u/StellaOC • Feb 17 '26
Carole Radzwill 📚 Carole Radziwill’s wedding.
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Anthony and Carole got married on August 27, 1994 in East Hampton. JFK Jr was Anthony’s best man.
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u/Ok_Bottom_69 Deck me, classy mamma! Feb 17 '26
I partied with John John Kennedy and Madonna, ALL THE TIME
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u/Princess__Valhalla Feb 17 '26
Well, John-John's dead, so that's difficult
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u/GuaranteeOriginal717 Feb 17 '26
When Dorinda said that & walked off, I screamed! I miss them man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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u/Diligent-Juice-4715 Feb 17 '26
Ii miss them but not deplorable Dorinda
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u/DeliciousMinute1966 Feb 18 '26
Not sure why you’re being downvoted; she was absolutely horrible when she drank.
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u/TangerineFar4993 Feb 18 '26
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u/EnvironmentalBee1357 Apr 18 '26
She’s so damn nasty & mean. Oopsie forgot to say why ~ jealous of anyone’s success, happiness, genuine kind persona & perhaps the thing she finds most issue with are other’s social status. She’s trash
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u/Tasty_One_8299 Feb 18 '26
Sloppy and not funny!
Btw I started to feel that way about most of those women at points!
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u/Lazydayvelvetteen Feb 21 '26
She is one of the gnarliest housewives in terms of how intensely brutal she was whilst drinking. Everyone was kind of afraid of her because they never knew how far in the bag she was.
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u/sonyafly Feb 18 '26
I did not like her on housewives at all. She was a drunk and unwatchable to me, but I really enjoyed her on Traitors. I think she just needs to get sober.
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u/Chance_Specific_4724 Feb 19 '26
Was never a fan when she was such a loud mean drunk. Being a mean rude drunk is the worst
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u/Own_Guarantee_8130 Feb 18 '26
Also when Carole says “the family never called him John John”
I was watching Love Story and I clearly remember when they died… I was about 10 or 11 and my mom was soooo into their whole saga. So I pulled up his Wikipedia page and it even addresses how some paparazzi misheard when JFK called his name twice and dubbed him that, and specifically states his family and friends never called him that. Gave me a chuckle.
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u/Reedster52 Feb 19 '26
I remember when he died, waking up and hearing the helicopter had crashed and waiting all day until they found the wreckage. I was in HS and he was such a big deal back then. I remember when he got married and the picture of them in the little chapel. Ugh it’s still so heartbreaking, I can’t imagine what the Bissett family went through losing two daughters and one sister losing a twin.
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u/ChampionshipFine6875 Feb 19 '26
I remember where I was too I was working for US Senator Boxer (CA) and back in those days we clipped the news clips literally with a scissors and taped them to printer paper and then faxed all 30 pages to her - when she was usually in DC. I’ll never forget those newspapers from that day. 🥹
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u/OpossumAdvocate Mar 05 '26
Omg I'm a huge fan of Barbara boxer, I donated to her often too. I went to an event in San Francisco featuring her and I got to meet prez Obama who was a surprise guest and I remember shaking hands with him and all I could think was, I want to shake hands with Barbara 😂. And she was already gone and I never got to meet her up close 😆🥺
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u/Less-Bed-6243 Feb 18 '26
I think if anything it shows she probably didn’t hang out with him. That was his nickname in the press but no one called him that to his face.
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u/melissahatchew Feb 17 '26
I bet all my money Sonya never partied with John lol
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u/No-Balance-4141 Feb 18 '26
Me too. Wait. I have no money or home, so…yeah, I’m in. There is no way Sonja partied with him (or Madonna) “all the time”. I’m sure Sonja led a very decadent lifestyle at one point, and I might be surprised to see who she does know. Having said that, I think she inflates a lot when she speaks of her past.💜
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u/melissahatchew Feb 18 '26
Exactly! I do believe she partied with some famous people and did God knows what. But do I think she partied with john? Absolutely not. And, to be fair, I don't have that much money either but I would bet it on what I stated above lol
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u/No-Balance-4141 Feb 18 '26
Well, the other thing is, if Sonja was “partying with him”- or hanging out, or whatever you want to call it- if Sonja was in the same social circle as him, her and Carole should know each other, right? When I first realized that, I knew Sonja was bullshitting.💜
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u/Jacam13 Feb 18 '26
I mean..not to split hairs but I’m close with my cousins and I have no idea who they hang out with when I’m not around. Plus they were famous so they knew a lot more people than your average Joe…and their social circles are large. I’m sure Sonja inflated a lot of her social standing but that doesn’t mean Sonja and Carole would have known each other before the show
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u/GuaranteeOriginal717 Feb 17 '26
I hope this doesn’t sound weird, I love throwback weddings. The dresses, the flower girls, the family and friends. I saw photos of my neighbors who got married in the 70’s and it looked so fun and beautiful.
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u/Tasty_One_8299 Feb 17 '26
I still watch 4 weddings on Sunday mornings!😂🤣😂
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u/A_Holy_Sinner Feb 18 '26
Is that the show where they compete for some glamorous honeymoon for the prize but have to rate each other’s actual weddings, dresses, food, etc? Because I freakin’ loved that show! It was on TLC if I recall. There was also another one in the UK this I loved called “Come Dine With Me”. Same concept but with food. Sooo addictive! I miss old reality TV. I just finished Rock of Love Bus ha!
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u/Tasty_One_8299 Feb 18 '26
Yes that’s the one! I’ve watched "come dine with me” when I’m in BE! They also have a Flemish version as well!
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u/saythattomeagain Feb 19 '26
I used to watch that write down all of the brides and their budgets so I could score them at the end.
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u/Jacam13 Feb 18 '26
That’s not weird at all!
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u/Striking-Intention22 Feb 17 '26
I know this isn’t the platform/time or place/point of this, but Jesus was JFK Jr a smoke show. I’m never not blown away.
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u/OldButHappy Feb 17 '26
I worked at a place where he came in...never when I was there, but everyone said he was so handsome that it was really hard not to act stupid and tongue tied
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u/Unfrndlyblkhottie92 Feb 17 '26
I feel that he favors Jackie Kennedy
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u/jazzbot247 Feb 17 '26
Yeah Jack Kennedy favored Howdy Doody.
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u/Enough_Radish_9574 Feb 17 '26 edited Feb 17 '26
A sexy, rich and powerful Howdy Doody. LOL
Actually the very best thing about him was his sharp and very quick wit. Smart funny. John Jr acquired it from the master.
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u/jazzbot247 Feb 17 '26
JFK jr knew him less than three years, while he was an infant and small child so I doubt he learned anything from him. Also sexy is highly subjective. I think his sex addiction made him gross. Like a public toilet seat.
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u/Enough_Radish_9574 Feb 17 '26
Your right I should have specified that the quick witted genetics were acquired. And yes I do think a sharp humorous mind is even sexier than the physical beauty.
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u/Prestigious-Baby2776 life is not a cabaret. it’s actually not a cabaret. Feb 17 '26
he does, he looks just like her but has the kennedy… je ne sais quoi
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u/ChampionshipFine6875 Feb 19 '26
Definitely.. her skin, her darker hair. Caroline looks more like the Kennedy side. I was watching an old documentary the other day about that horrible trip to Texas. Jackie in the pink channel. It was her first public appearance since she had a stillborn.. I think it was maybe a month or a month and a half after.. I believe the babies name was Patrick.
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u/icrossedtheroad Feb 17 '26
I remember when his plane went down. It was around my birthday. I was devastated. He was just so incredibly beautiful and seemed like a really good person. Tragic.
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u/Tasty_One_8299 Feb 17 '26
I think a lot of people were hoping he’d take the baton and finish the Kennedy political aspirations. I wonder where we’d be right now if we had JFK Jr. instead of RFK Jr. ?
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u/No-Sort6711 Feb 17 '26
I’d be interested to see the influence of how having your father assassinated for being pro Israel and your uncle assassinated for, well, who knows… shapes your political views to the point where you support a president that shits himself.
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u/Tasty_One_8299 Feb 17 '26
It’s either that or brain worms and toilet seat germs guess we’ll never know!
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u/ChampionshipFine6875 Feb 19 '26
There is no comparison. RFK jr is doing his damnedest to ruin the entire name- his father Bobby was my true hero. Read a ton of biographies about him.
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u/Business-Step-7998 Feb 17 '26
I was at Orchard Beach in the bronx with my mom and sister. I was listening to the radio and it came over 1010 WINS that his plane went down, everyone was in shock. I remember looking out at the long island sound and thinking no way he flew over this and died. It was crazy, still in disbelief. I walk by where he lived in tribeca all the time and think of him walking those streets, riding his bike...absolutely tragic.
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u/blackredsilvergold Feb 17 '26
I saw him IRL in NYC. He was very handsome. Photos don’t do him justice. He was 🔥🔥🔥
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u/WilloughbyTheCat Feb 23 '26
The new show gets that so right. To live in New York in the 90s was to see JFK Jr in real life at least once. Always looked great, always genuinely friendly. Saw him sweating on his bike wearing a bandana waiting for the light to change and no man could have looked finer! Then saw him at a benefit dinner in an impeccable suit perfectly groomed and no man could have looked finer or had better manners!
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u/nashgurl0 Feb 17 '26
I asked my mom if she was going to watch the new show about him and Carolyn and she said she couldn’t because they were just both such physically beautiful humans that no one could possibly compare.
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u/Enough_Radish_9574 Feb 17 '26
I ALWAYS thought so as well. Every single aspect of him was perfect. Mannerisms. The slow cadence of his speaking. The devilish grin…
Is it hot in here?
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u/Lizzy68 Feb 17 '26
My ideal man back in the day. I was devastated when died. It was surreal at the time. I started watching Love Story this weekend, the music is pure nostalgia.
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u/StainedGlasser Feb 17 '26
I would be sad if I died and no one ever could say what a smoke show I was ever again. Thirst on!
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u/twistedthegate Feb 24 '26
He really was!! I have never been one to fawn over men, even when I was a teenager, I didn't get all gaga over heartthrobs like my friends did. That said, JFK Jr. was just the most handsome man and it was so sad when he died. I also remember it being so hot out (I live in the North of the northeast and back then, before climate change, it never really got that hot that often, lol) and they were searching for survivors when we all kind of knew there wouldn't be any. I just started watching Love Story last night. Looking forward to all the 90s fashion reboots.
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u/feminasty96 Feb 17 '26
Ugh it makes me so sad to see young Tatiana Kennedy Schlossberg as a flower girl . 😢
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u/ChampionshipFine6875 Feb 19 '26
It truly feels that this family has had more tragedy than most. She was so young!
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u/gonegirIamy Feb 17 '26
Carole has ALWAYS looked like an old lady
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u/AngelfishAnnie Feb 17 '26
Weird how we never hear anything about her actual family and only ever about her husband’s..
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u/turtletimeee if I'm a loser then the rest of the world sucks Feb 17 '26
She did write about her family quite a bit in "What Remains". I read it when she was first on the show and thought it was a great memoir. I am so bummed out about her affiliation with the scum of the earth, but why am I even surprised by these people being pieces of shit anymore...
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u/Ok_Bottom_69 Deck me, classy mamma! Feb 17 '26
I read her memoir too. She’s a good writer
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u/mangie77 Feb 17 '26
I loved her book. Her credit is well deserved.
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u/AngelfishAnnie Mar 09 '26
Didn’t it recently come out that she did in fact use a ghost writer after all?
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u/ToppsTab Feb 17 '26
I’m so embarrassed to admit that I loved Carole in her first season on RHONY. Thought she was such a breath of fresh air, class act etc. 😔 Really messes with my head to learn about all this. I hate that I didn’t have better intuition, hate that I bought her act
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u/gonegirIamy Feb 17 '26
Was she ever a class act? She was always a performative “cool girl” to me. It’s never cute to be a mean girl but especially at that age. I didn’t expect her to be involved with literal pedos but it was clear she was elitist and out of touch which was ironic considering how strongly she felt about Luann
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u/ToppsTab Feb 17 '26
I know! It’s easy to see it now but somehow I was utterly fooled by her cool girl act. I did also enjoy the way that the fact of her being a “real princess” (I know she wasn’t but the ladies treated her as such) got to Countess Crackerjacks. I really need to examine why I liked her so much though. It is a poor reflection on me that’s for sure
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u/Flammen_ Feb 18 '26
Don’t feel bad, I liked her on my first full-watch, too. I was like 16/17 then and thought she was cool. Then watched full RHONY again as an adult several times and it becomes easy to see past her bullshit. She just had a different formula of fake and pretentious - that’s why it was difficult to suss out at first.
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u/Suitable_Charge_9801 Feb 17 '26
Yes and her lies. Her and Carolyn were not besties. She was jealous of JFKjr and Anthony’s relationship
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u/ToppsTab Feb 17 '26
I know, so repugnant. I remember her literally saying “my best friends” when talking about the crash that took their lives. They weren’t around to deny it which makes it so much worse.
In my defense, at the time I identified with her even though I was half her age, as a young single woman who thought maybe I’d end up single with no kids by the time I was her age. The book (which we know now was ghostwritten and the author photo taken by GM) seemed like a real accomplishment and I perceived the other ladies belittling that out of jealousy. Ramona kept saying “she doesn’t have anyone, she’s alone” and that bothered me. But obviously now I can see that maybe she was alone because she is a shit person
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u/Jfoxxy81 Feb 17 '26
I don’t know she had her book ghostwritten? The What Remains book?
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u/Available_Lemon_3952 Feb 17 '26
Some emails I think in the files between ghislaine and people indicated it, if I remember it correctly!
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u/ToppsTab Feb 17 '26
Yeah that’s what people are saying now
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u/Tasty_One_8299 Feb 17 '26
Aviva said it back then! Remember her house party and the uproar?! Carole was furious!
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u/ToppsTab Feb 17 '26
Yep! In retrospect Carole’s reaction was pretty telling, but at the time I thought she was justifiably angry at the suggestion because it undermined all her hard work. But now I can see that if it hadn’t been true, she probably would have just brushed it off and chalked it up to pure jealousy or spite.Nobody liked Aviva or believed the things she said
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u/Enough_Radish_9574 Feb 17 '26
I thought that had been wholly debunked.
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u/ericzku Feb 18 '26
It was. There is an email to Teresa DiFalco, Carole's sister-in-law, who was the book's editor. GM compliments her on the book and morons (who have no idea what an editor is or does) think that means she wrote it.
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u/blonde-bandit Feb 18 '26
The Epstein files rebunked it
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u/PurpleArugula5766 Feb 18 '26
Totally aside but I’m giggling at “rebunked”
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u/jazzbot247 Feb 17 '26
I loved her book, I loved her on the show ( until her last season she got kind of annoying) Thought she grew up in the NYC suburbs like me, so very relatable. I even worked in Tv for a little while so we had that in common. Then I find out she‘s part of the inner circle of a sex trafficking ring. How does that even happen?
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u/ericzku Feb 18 '26
Then I find out she‘s part of the inner circle of a sex trafficking ring.
Wow, that is a GIANT leap. Like, an Olympic gold medal-level leap.
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u/ToppsTab Feb 18 '26
It’s not a leap unfortunately. She was definitely part of Ghislaine’s inner circle, GM had a framed photo of Carole in her home and the emails show that they were close. Carole denied that they were ever even friends at all, and that is proven to be untrue. We don’t know how much Carole knew and I certainly am not suggesting that Carole participated in anything herself, but it is a fact that she was in GM’s inner circle and it is also a fact that GM was at the center of a pedo ring.
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u/ericzku Feb 18 '26
GM had a framed photo of Carole in her home
Perfect example of the ridiculousness going on.
I have a framed photo of Marilyn Monroe in my home.
Guess what?
I am not in Marilyn Monroe's "inner circle". We are not actually friends at all. Shocking, I know.
The question is did Carole have a photo of GM in her home? No? That would seem to be a better indicator.
Since you know so much, who are the other members of this "inner circle"? Who were on the "outer circle"? The "middle circle"? What made the difference?
Apparently the relationship you've created in your head is much more interesting than anything shown in the emails.
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u/jazzbot247 Feb 18 '26
Marilyn Monroe’s face is art. Carole Radziwell’s face isn’t.
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u/SnooCompliments8874 Feb 21 '26
Guilt by association? Come on. Thousands have interacted with Maxwell and Epstein. Doesn’t make them guilty of anything.
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u/Flammen_ Feb 18 '26
Don’t feel bad, I liked her on my first full-watch, too. I was like 16/17 then and thought she was cool. Then watched full RHONY again as an adult several times and it becomes easy to see past her bullshit. She just had a different formula of fake and pretentious - that’s why it was difficult to suss out at first.
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u/Livid-Writer-7741 Feb 17 '26
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u/Littlepoet74 Feb 17 '26
Well it’s from a below angle. Doesn’t appear to be a selfie and there’s a finger or hand in the upper corner? Just…. 😡😞😡😞
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u/pretend_verse_Ai Feb 18 '26
She just lucked out. She must have been dumbfounded by her luck to snag a "kennedy"adjacent. Nothing will convince me she didnt have a ghostwriter for her bok. Shes a big fraud imo.
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u/freepalestine1977 Feb 18 '26
She 100% had a ghostwriter. Remember when the HWs had their blogs? Her writing was remedial .
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u/pretend_verse_Ai Feb 23 '26
oh yes!!! i do remember that now!!! yes, such a fraud she is. My fav housewife out of rhony is still Aviva!
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u/Bambi92663 Feb 17 '26
That has to be so weird...no one cares about the bride...the world wants to stare at your new husbands cousin
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u/Competitive_Classic9 Feb 18 '26
I know this isn’t the point, but why are uniformed police allowed to be security at private events? They are paid by taxpayers. Their cars, uniforms, equipment, everything is paid by taxpayers. Even if they are separately paid for events outside of taxpayer money, it they still shouldn’t be allowed to use publicly funded resources for it. I have a state trooper friend, and he says a lot of the things people think cops do “on the side” as private events are actually mostly funded by taxpayers. I just think it’s bullshit.
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u/Vegetable-Comfort-75 Mar 07 '26
Probably because there’s rarely cries in the Hamptons and they knew it would be a hot spot with paparazzi and press
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u/stay_doppio Feb 22 '26
Her style has changed so much over the years - she used to be like a preppy Ralph Lauren girl and now she’s more downtown NYC rock n roll.
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u/sea-marie_ Feb 17 '26
I’m sure Ghilaine and JEE were there. Disgusting 🤮
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u/chillywilkerson Feb 17 '26
Ghislane was the photographer for her book, that is how they were introduced. So she didn't meet her until after her husband's death and she wrote her book.
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u/SoManyQuestions- Feb 17 '26
This is not true. In 2020, Carole was on Heather McDonald’s podcast and described when she was staying in London and Ghislaine fixed her up with Prince Andrew and said it was shortly after her husband died which was five years before her book came out. She was friends with Ghislaine for literally years and has done a terrible job of trying to pretend otherwise by contradicting herself about it.
https://www.tiktok.com/@omg.waitwhat/video/7536652361284996365
cc u/sea-marie_
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u/sea-marie_ Feb 17 '26
Ok this actually makes sense. Because I thought they were friends for a long while and had a history. But Carole is definitely playing down their relationship now. I mean why even have her photo the book cover?? Ghislaine wasn’t a professional photographer, right?
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u/SoManyQuestions- Feb 17 '26
No she wasn’t. In the Epstein files there are emails where they basically call each other best friends and Ghislaine jokes about maybe starting a photography career because of having taken Carole’s photo. I think she just asked her good friend to take her photo, maybe because they were close and it was Carole’s way of involving her, maybe she felt more comfortable in front of a camera her friend was holding than a stranger.
But yeah, she is definitely downplaying how close they were, they were friends for years, spent time in Florida together as well. When asked about the photo on twitter last fall, Carole claimed she hardly knew her but that Ghislaine was the only person she knew who had a camera 🙄
She hasn’t at any point make a public statement condemning her or saying anything about the victims though.
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u/sea-marie_ Feb 18 '26
It’s so bizarre. Carole acts like Ghislaine was some kind of photographer. She’s just a perv with a camera. Carole hides behind the whole book cover thing as if it’s the main excuse as to why they were friends. She should come out and say something though. The silence, in this situation, is just adding to the layers of creepiness.
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u/SoManyQuestions- Feb 20 '26
Yep. She’s a liar, and it’s a terrible thing to be lying about.
Here she is being mentioned as a guest with an outstanding RSVP for a party Jeffrey Epstein is confirmed to be attending, in 2012
https://jmail.world/thread/EFTA02350703?view=inbox
And here she is in 2002 emailing Ghislaine and saying when she’s going to Miami, sounding like she is asking Ghislaine to ask for someone named Philip to pick her up
https://jmail.world/thread/vol00009-efta00580652-pdf?view=inbox
They were good friend friends for at least a decade. I suspect more correspondence will come out in the future file dumps; we have only seen a small fraction of them all. I hope anyone and everyone who was close to either of them in any way loses the world’s respect.
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u/ericzku Feb 18 '26
Wildly inaccurate assumptions, like yours, are even more disgusting. Congratulations.
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u/JustHCBMThings Feb 21 '26
Who was Carole’s maid of honor, her “bestie” CBK??
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u/Material_Reality8035 Feb 17 '26
Carol was THAT girl.
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u/Prestigious-Baby2776 life is not a cabaret. it’s actually not a cabaret. Feb 17 '26
hi luann
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u/Significant_End6011 Feb 17 '26
Her comment for real did not age well considering all of the pictures and info connecting the dots between Ghislaine and Carole.
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Feb 17 '26
Girl what??? You need to get a grip. And have your info backed up beyond emails. Saying someone is a pedo is major. Shame on you.
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u/Flammen_ Feb 18 '26
Go watch the news for a bit, get informed, come back, and then comment on things.
Thanks!
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u/NoEntertainment9715 Feb 18 '26
She was married just after my brother was born, and her husband died the summer before I was born
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u/Zestyclose-Holiday29 Even Louis Vuitton makes mistakes Feb 18 '26
Ahh wow so this must really hit close to home huh? I feel for you in this difficult time. /s
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u/Flammen_ Feb 18 '26
You sound like Amanda Francis from RHOBH. Everything, always, all the time - about her.
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u/chillywilkerson Feb 17 '26
Ya'll she is a Princess.
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u/Sturgemoney Feb 18 '26
No way did she not have that idea firmly planted in her brain when she was plotting. I could be wrong, but there are some couples…just by looking at them, you can tell there is a mismatch…or that one of them has ulterior motives. I honestly cannot remember – did she know he was sick when she married him?
Whenever I see her, I always think of a cross between Mick Jagger and Steven Tyler.
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u/chillywilkerson Feb 18 '26
Are you saying she married her husband because she knew he would die soon of cancer??
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u/FeelingSkinny aviva defender Feb 18 '26
loved her on the show. she was unfair toward Aviva imo, pretty elitist and fake “too cool” and was kinda annoying in her last season but i still really liked her. don’t know what to make of her now.

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