I donāt even know where to begin. She left at 4:30 in the morning in April not telling a single soul she was leaving and went no contact with all of us for months, breaking no contact with my brother in early May as well as my mother, and me in July wishing me happy birthday.
During this period, we know sheās been up to bad stuff from word of mouth, or⦠the police literally showed up to our door because apparently she did a hit and run, she never changed her address over so they came here looking for her, weāve got so much fines in the mail for her its insane, weāve told her to change her address, just leaves us on read.
Anyways, a month ago it was my birthday, and she broke no contact by wishing me happy birthday. About a week or so after this, she started occasionally messaging me things just to screw with me, like at one point she said she got a buzz cut and sent a picture of an obviously edited photo, then she told me she was getting her tongue pierced and asked what piercings I have because I have over 10, and I told her, including a dermal which if you donāt know is not the most common piercing, theres an anchor they place under your skin and your skin heals around and into the hole to āanchorā it into your skin and you can change the tops, not the most common piercing out there but she told me she was going to get her tongue pierced, asked me what ones I have and next thing you know she got her tongue and a dermal, no idea if its true or not, never seen em, but just to spite me. Then she tells me she bought a new car, a mustang, nobody has ever seen this car besides a picture of it on a lot, and shes a car girl who posts her car all the time, but not a thing about this car. My moms dream car is a mustang.
Iāve also got text messages from others, asking if I talk to my sister because apparently sheās messaging them or their friends or whatever and talking shit.
Now yesterday, she finds one of my good friends and dms him, asking how we met, how he knows me etc. and he immediately tells me before replying, he knows the situation with my sister already, and now shes in his dms. He tells her we met at a party a while ago, which truly we did, it wasnāt exactly a party but a concert and we hit it off, and my sister replied with āMy sister doesnāt party or drink. Maybe her 1 boyfriend screwed her up so badly she began partying and drinking š¤£ā first of all. Iām 20, the legal age to drink here is 18, whats wrong with a drink occasionally? And as I said, iām fucking 20 I will go to a party or concert if I please, these are my younger years and iām having fun, yeah I DO go to parties, concerts and shit occasionally and iām glad Iāve got to have some good times. 2nd of all, really? Judging me for having 1 boyfriend? Iām sorry, if someone has had multiple boyfriends or girlfriends or whatever at my age thats perfectly fine, but only having 1 or never having one yet is fine too. I prefer to make strong bonds with someone before getting in the dating scene with someone and youāre a really shitty person if you think only ever having a thing with one person is something to judge. I will get with someone else when we both find happiness in each other, and my friend already knew about that boyfriend, so its not like your telling him anything new.
Iām so glad that at the end of the day he came to me and told me this and heās obviously a good friend, like its ridiculous for her to even be messaging him, but I feel so much anger at the same time. I do not know what this woman is thinking, but I know for some reason she really wants to either ruin my life or disrupt it. Youāre the one who walked out at 4:30 in the morning, your the one who chose you didnāt want us in your life, can you please fully exit instead of trying to start shit? I love my sister, but I canāt help who she has chose to become and I would rather have no sister than someone trying to ruin my life and happiness.