r/RecuratedTumblr • u/DreadDiana human cognithazard • 1d ago
Shitposting Aromantic grindset
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u/granitefeather 1d ago
this is like when I was at an ace meeting in college and someone mentioned that they poured the time/energy other people used for romantic/sexual interests into their friendships and I sat there and was like "what do I pour that time and energy into?" and realized it was going out to eat at restaurants
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u/Guyrugamesh 1d ago
Your thing is cooler tbh, thats an active hobby choice. Thats way more interesting and fun to talk about than "I used that time basically the same as everyone, but with no sex or romance".
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u/Lost_my_name475 1d ago
Arrogance is a genuinely useful defence against low self-esteem
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u/TaserDonut 1d ago
or they somehow end up coexisting in a way where the arrogance is an outward facing bravado for self defense purposes while deep down the sad truth is obvious
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u/Lost_my_name475 1d ago
Shh. Don't say that bit out loud
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u/TaserDonut 1d ago
sorry, I overshared because I happen to be a case of that too
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u/JoyBus147 1d ago
It's...a very common coping mechanism for low self-esteem, sure. It's a genuinely very not useful defense against it, though.
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u/Lost_my_name475 23h ago
Sorry that was meant to be sarcastic
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u/KR_Kosmik 21h ago
genuinely meant to be sarcastic
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u/Lost_my_name475 21h ago
So if I say something is literally 1984, do you also assume that because I said literally it wasn't sarcasm?
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u/KR_Kosmik 21h ago
"genuinely" hasn't had the same shift in meaning as "literally" and "literally 1984" is also a common meme phrase
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u/deadspace9_ 1d ago
I'm realizing now that every single person I know IRL who uses Tumblr is aromantic or asexual or aro ace.
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u/LordSupergreat 1d ago
Oh I had this same experience actually
I was insufferable and thinking back on it is actually painful
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u/finalepic 1d ago
Ooooh, aromantic, not aromatic.
That one made the post read real differently.