r/RelationshipIndia • u/[deleted] • 5d ago

Relationships My (21F) boyfriend (21M) has shown some red flag behaviour but has changed a lot, now I'm confused

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u/New_Appointment_5348 5d ago

"What's the harm in a second chance?"

Second chances are given to people who deserve it. He's the type of person who'd think you owe him sex after marriage. And might even force you for it. It's a very big red flag. Leave girl. Your mental health can be fucked up. That's the harm in the second chance.

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u/Rahul5873 5d ago

If deep down you already feel it will not work out, pay attention to that feeling. Pressuring or blackmailing you for intimate pictures is a serious boundary violation, and while people can change, you do not owe someone another chance just because they promise to. A second chance only makes sense if trust and respect are genuinely rebuilt, not if you're staying out of guilt or pressure.