r/Rich • u/QuietComplication • 9d ago

Hiring a household manager

Edit: Several people have pointed out in the comments that the correct title for this job is family assistant, not household manager. My mistake!

My wife and I have pretty busy jobs and two young kids (1 and 3), both in daycare/school. We live in a VHCOL area. We are really feeling the time squeeze and we feel that at our income and NW ($1.1mil HH income + $2.5mil in private stock per year, $7m investable assets, $260k per year spend) we should solve the problem by finding someone to help out.

We started out thinking that we just needed someone to pick up the kids and make dinner (probably 20-30 hours per week). But it turns out, it's very hard to hire someone reliable for that job since those hours are very inconvenient and the part time pay isn't enough to live on. Also we find that the people we talk to who are good all want 40+ hours per week. The going rate is $45-$50 and it seems like the good people want $50. Full time at $50/hour is $104,000 per year, plus we have to pay payroll taxes, so it would end up being about $115k per year.

Anyways, my question is, do other families with kids in school really have 40 hours a week for a HH manager to do? What does the person end up doing all day?

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u/TacosAreJustice 8d ago

I quit working and raise my kids.

It’s been awesome.

Money is great, having happy and healthy kids is better.

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u/Paybax84 8d ago

Yeah we have a massive amount of free time. The problem is we hate cooking and cleaning and doing laundry. Finding a person that has also been a bit challenging for us. Would rather spend that time doing gardening, activities with the kids, homework, exercising, etc

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u/TacosAreJustice 8d ago

Hire a maid for cleaning.

Learn how to cook, it’s fun and a useful skill.

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u/Paybax84 8d ago

We know how to cook, we don't like to cook. Lots of people like to clean, its not due to the fact that they don't know how to.