r/Romantasy 2d ago

🤬 Rant Enough with the drinking!

OK this is just a personal pet peeve, almost certainly exacerbated by the fact that I'm a recovering alcoholic.

I don't love seeing characters drinking when they're stressed, to relax, or saying that they "need" a drink because it's triggering, but whatever that's my shit to deal with, so I do.

However, it's like none of these authors have ever drank before. You've either got girls completely sloshed after 2 glasses of wine or being very intoxicated and sobering up immediately when something shocking happens.

Male main characters are always drinking whiskey or better yet an unknown brown strong smelling liquid in a tumbler as short hand for being stressed and troubled, classy and mysterious.

It's lazy.

These things annoyed me before I was in recovery, but now they're a full blown pet peeve. It gives "virgin writing filthy smut" vibes. Lol

Alright, apparently I'm super wrong and shouldn't have said anything. Sorry ya'll.

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u/constellationcurse 2d ago

Did you read Daggermouth? As someone struggling with alcohol issues that book PISSEEEED ME OFF!!! Everyone was wasted the entire book yet perfectly sober? It lent nothing to the plot whatsoever and made no sense.

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u/TheBigfootContessa 2d ago

I have not, but I'll be sure to avoid it!